you guys who cant get it up while your hard just need a little control and disapline. its not that though, just stop thinking about how you feel on the E and realize you have a naked hottie infront of you open and waiting. look at her body, see how nice it looks? now picture it wilth your dick it it--visualize-...now attack!!! and as far as finishing, who cares if you dont finish on your first try, roll the fuck over, relax and laugh for a little and then try again in a little bit. relax, no one's going anywhere. then when you do wind up cumming later, it will be one of those nice 'ive been working for this one' cums. good luck men