X and Sirdante, well put.... You are experiencing what we have been thru at one time or another. When you feel like calling, go ahead and call. Try and be friendly and just keep it light and simple. I always try and tell people, if nothing romantic happens, maybe you just got a new friend..... Keep your chin up and do not let this screw with your confidence! If you never hear from her again, it is her loss not yours! ------------------ Life can only be understood backward, but it must be lived forward.