i'm a really smell-oriented person. i can recall a couple of occasions right after i broke up with my last bf that i helped some people in my store who used the same laundry detergent that he did. i didn't hear a thing they said; my mind was totally occupied with thoughts of jumping their bones - no matter who they were ! i made sure to never ask what detergent he used, so that, if things ever did go wrong between us (we weren't together all that long), i wouldn't torture myself in the laundry aisle at the store .