all right, i need people's input on this. when i'm dancing, i dance alone. i dance near my friends, but we don't dance with each other. i get in my own little zone, and i don't just face the dj; i turn around, take up a lot of space... i get involved, and i think that's pretty obvious. i am part of the room, the experience, and all of that - i don't mean that i want to isolate myself from everyone - i just mean that i dance with myself. i don't like it when guys just come up and try to dance with me, without even saying anything. maybe if they were to say, "hello," it'd be ok, but they rarely do. still, though, i'm not really in the mood to talk when i'm dancing; i don't know how to effectively communicate how active i am when i dance ... anyway, i'd just like it if guys would wait to approach me till i'm off the dancefloor instead. you know, when i'm no longer occupied. and i feel more like a person that way, instead of a dancing body. my brother says the way i feel about this is weird and that no guy should be expected to know that i don't want to talk when i'm dancing unless i wear a shirt that says, "don't bother me; i'm dancing." do you think my feelings are out of the ordinary? how do you all like to be approached by men/women in clubs? how do you NOT like to be approached?