I usually look for the total package but I'm also likely to pick someone passionate, with personality, over some numbwad that can't spell his name but looks really good. Something to think about, workenonlife - if you're working out trying to get diesel to attract a girl - you're never gonna get one. Trust me, we get pawed on by countless jacked up guidos every weekend. The guys we go for are the ones who DISTINGUISH themselves from those types