WOW!! talk about stereotyping. perhaps u don't know much about your own heritage and don't take a lot of pride in it or something. and maybe, just maybe its possible for non-twinkie asian girls to hit on white guys every once in a while. are u suggesting that people should only date people that look like them and come from similar backgrounds? i suppose that since i've dated black, white, irish, brazilian, korean, chinese, italian etc. that i just have a non jewish fetish? or should i assume that every girl i meet just has a jewish fetish cause there's no way they might be interested in me otherwise? obviously, your very provincial in your thinking and seem pretty biggotted (sp) actually. maybe if you met a quality person they would be interested in your background because they are interested in you - period. everything about you. now, i don't know about going out BEFORE having a girlfriend of another culture and studying that culture just so i know more about it. but once u are with someone, learning about them is anything but disrespectful.....