In general ... People that do that whole "oh, I have a bf, I have gf" way of talking, and refer to the fact that they have one to make themselves sound important, lack self worth. Most people toss around terms too lightly now ..."im in love", "she might be the one". Anyone can get married. Anyone can find the one. Try, however, to find the one that is the real catch, that everyone is after, and be able to keep it, and not have the marriage fail like most today, or turn into a faux-marriage, an open-relationship or with rapant secret infidelity.