i go to college too, stony brook reparazent, going into my junior year, ive had plenty of girls and i know exactly what ur saying..the trick is to find the right one who doesnt play these games and stay away from the retards...cuz a lot of girls especially dorm girls are retards..and dont even bother unless you like someone cuz maybe the girl ur looking for is somewhere else..not necessarily in college..youll run into her someday...trust me..i didnt believe it either but you will..somewhere..somehow..itll happen to you too. good luck