listen, this isnt how every girl thinks, this is just me, and wtf do i know... but i will say that this is how ive come to regard the whole flirtatious lounge/club scene and how things work in the real world. ive com across arrogant schumcks and then when a nice guy tries to talk to me i immediately assume he'd be the same. and whether he is or not, its my own chartacter flaws by sometimes taking risidual pent up angry out on someone who doesnt derserve it. i have been that bitch, you rolls her eyes, laughs to her girls and really never made the effort to see what your about, and ill admit that isnt fair. but i think you just hafta lay it out on the line sometimes, because you never know until you try, and just like how all guys arent assholes, all girls arent snotty stuck up bitches. ive made an effort to change my perspectives over the last few years, so personally im not this stereotypical 'club chick' anymore. main thing i think is to base everyone in themselves, first impressions and indivuals.