echostar Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 so theres this girl that wants to hook up with me.....and id hook up with her, but first i wanna find out if she got a std test because shes been with quite a few guysbut how do i approach it without i dunno making her seem like a slut or somethingand dont reply with "ask her" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 There is no easy way to ask her..... Why do ask her out and see how things go.... Unless you just wanna use her/ be used by her..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 . . if you're gonna play in the rain . . take an umbrella . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jimk29 Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by phuturephunk . . if you're gonna play in the rain . . take an umbrella . . . words to live by... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gambitrah Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 hook up with her..get a little freaky and bring some swabs and shit and dab her out..get a hair sample and some blood and send it to a lab... lolor just ask her...hey u dirty like jersey or what girl??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synderella420 Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 With the way things are today..I dont see nothing wrong with coming out and asking her... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barslut Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Ask her straight up , you clean muthafucker? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quoth Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by trancend so theres this girl that wants to hook up with me.....and id hook up with her, but first i wanna find out if she got a std test because shes been with quite a few guysbut how do i approach it without i dunno making her seem like a slut or somethingand dont reply with "ask her" yo seriously...no joke...and dont be shy or scared...just straight up ask her or straight the fuck up tell her..."yo seriously if you wanna sleep with me get checked cause aint no one night of fucking worth an eternity of misery casuse u caught some fucked up std?" Now check it..i was in a very similar situation...except the girl made herself obvious by saying blah blah blah "i slept with this amount of guys...but i had 4 unprotected partners...and the last one i know he slept around a lot so its possible that he had something" Now of course it had me thinking...WTF!!!!!?????? You just blatantly told me that u had 4 recent unprotected partners one of which u think may have been dirty and yet u wanna sleep with me after u just told me that shit??? Nah uh..NOPE...get a fuckin AIDS test i told her...in which she did and thankfully everthing was cool..but i was long gone cause i had other interests. So the point here is..is that...im sure you DON'T ask every girl u sleep with the same question...but who does?? But if there is a clue in yer mind that this possibly aint a safe situation...then it usually isnt...so trust yer instincts...dont hesitate to ask her...and shit go get tested yerself cause she might just spring back the question on yer face...least in the end if everything tests negative u will have A) some kick ass bangin hardcore sex and more enjoyable sex without the mystery looming over yer head. But really..in this and age...asking a girl if she has an STD or if she has recently gotten tested at her gyno...and vice versa a girl asking a guy if he has been tested is veryyyyyyy common so don't hesitate brotha man...it's yer life..NOT!! hers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Quoth first to some statements:rolleyes: Trancend: God damn, dont sleep with the chick then if you have doubts....if u ask her straight out, she may be scared off...there no easy way to approach this, cause no one wants to think they are dirty...if she has had many partners, she should have gotten tested.....or you can just ask, I mean depending on how close you are....IDK, good luck babes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 just hook up with her and don't have sex with her... shes dirty as hell... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 why dont you suggest that both of you get tested, not just her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted April 23 Author Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 There is no easy way to ask her..... Why do ask her out and see how things go.... Unless you just wanna use her/ be used by her..... because i dont want a girlfriend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted April 23 Author Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by joeg just hook up with her and don't have sex with her... shes dirty as hell... you can still catch shit other ways.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted April 23 Author Report Share Posted April 23 yeah...sounds like i have some thinking to do before tomorrow night!asking her straight out may be the only way to go but who knows...i dont really know her that well, ill see how it goes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 justin...jus let her give u head.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 haven´t read the replies and maybe someone already pointed it out:next time you meet her, make up a meeting for the next time, then "oh damn, i just remember i can´t make it there, i have a meeting with uncle doc. you know, just the regular checkup, blood, stds and the likes. btw do you test? you know you can never be too safe..." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jy Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 tell her you'll get tested together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synderella420 Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by ghhhhhost justin...jus let her give u head.. Not a smart move..you can still catch diseases for just getting head:rolleyes: Even if you use a condom (which most guys dont like to use while getting head ) you can still catch genital warts and also herpes...so nothing is safe...it is really scary when you come to think about it....Trancend just be safe and smart in your decisions thats all.. there are plenty of other hot girls who might not be as sexually active as her...that I am sure you can pull...Just my 2 cents... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by trancend because i dont want a girlfriend Gotcha....You just wanna hang out with and hook up... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by trancend yeah...sounds like i have some thinking to do before tomorrow night!asking her straight out may be the only way to go but who knows...i dont really know her that well, ill see how it goes feel the vibe and see how things go..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jy Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 feel the vibe and see how things go..... exactly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by jy exactly. You can see how things go, and if it feels right, you'll find some way do do it tactfully and tasteful..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jy Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 honestly though, if you know the girl has been around and you're actually worried that she's carrying something why would you still want to hook up with her????if you're not in it for a relationship why not just find someone else.stds arent things that you can ignore and in a situation like this i think i'd be straight up about the whole thing. I know it may not seem tactfull but saying something like "maybe we should both get tested" doesn't come across all that bad.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted April 23 Author Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Gotcha....You just wanna hang out with and hook up... yeah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barbiegirl Posted April 24 Report Share Posted April 24 i would ask her ... but if you don't know this girl that well to begin with how do you know she will be honest with you and that you can trust what she is telling you ??someone said earlier - "if your gonna play in the rain, bring an umbrella" - that is pretty funny shit !!i would think about it though - why do you even want to hook up with someone who you KNOW has been around the block ?? why not hook up with somebody respectable ?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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