dance2this Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 When a girl likes a guy, and he knows, when he begins to show that he really likes her and tells her this, will the girl then back off? Will he just be a feat to the girl knowing that she ca have him? does he always have to play hard to get and never tell her he really like her? Is the girl/ guy that we want just a challenge and once we have them we don't like them? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 Originally posted by dance2this When a girl likes a guy, and he knows, when he begins to show that he really likes her and tells her this, will the girl then back off? Will he just be a feat to the girl knowing that she ca have him? does he always have to play hard to get and never tell her he really like her? Is the girl/ guy that we want just a challenge and once we have them we don't like them? yah know i find this to be true in most cases, girls seem to lose interest or take for granted guys that are already like em once they confess it, sucks ya know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 Unfortunately, i have seen this to be true. It's part of the "playing games" conundrum But it's such a silly reaction. the guy is being honest about his opinion, but then the girl starts to distance herself from him, or give signs that she's not interested.I've been thru this (in fact, just last week .), but the girl did not respond.So what i always say is screw them, cuz it's their loss. You were being upfront and honest, and if they can't handle it, go for someone that can handle your heat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
captainpec Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 I hate bitches! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 Actually women prefer honesty, to know how the guy feels about them....many women won't say anything to the guy, unless he says something firstthere are SOME women that are in it as a game, wait for the guys to tell the them how they feel and then they back off, game overSome women get freaked out because the guy theyre feelin, finally is feeling them back...they think its too good to be true.so my advice, tell the girl how you're feeling, if she backs off ask her why...you can tell if its a fake answer. if shes in it for game, then she doesnt deserve any good guy at all. if she's just freaked, then be prepared to be patient Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 Originally posted by dance2this When a girl likes a guy, and he knows, when he begins to show that he really likes her and tells her this, will the girl then back off? Will he just be a feat to the girl knowing that she ca have him? does he always have to play hard to get and never tell her he really like her? Is the girl/ guy that we want just a challenge and once we have them we don't like them? I've had experiences like that, and I don't like it one bit. I show interest, she receeds..I walk away, she applies pressure. Its such a fucked up headgame.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dance2this Posted December 29 Author Report Share Posted December 29 Then should a guy jkust play it cool the whole time making believe that he does not care? I know that it is not always the case- when guys become- "whipped" the girl wants absolute control- in the case- is the girl showing that she really loves him- or is it a control issue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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i3itch Posted December 29 Report Share Posted December 29 i used to back off when the guy would like me.i never really realized it though.i feel like it has lost the challenge... i dunno Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted December 30 Report Share Posted December 30 ive been goin thru this shit for over a year now with this one girl in particular. we started talkin way back when, and then hooked up and then she started actin shady. and since then, which was like a year and a half ago, she'll call me time to time, say she really wants to chill, then disappears for weeks, maybe months. just a couple months ago she starts callin me frequently again, sayin she's havin problems with her bf, but she's always had feelings for me, and she wants to break up with him and all that shit. and i told her i liked her through this whole time too and i feel the same way. so she made plans with me, was gonna drive up to my house, do the whole dinner date thing. it was all her idea. then like an hour before she's supposed to be here she cancels. everytime she fucks me over like that, which is often, i'm like "thats it, ive had enough, im not talkin to her anymore" and i wont call her. but then she contacts me and i get sucked back in. im not she's playin mind games and im gettin taken advantage of, but i fall for it every time!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted December 30 Report Share Posted December 30 shes a hewaaaaa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tommyarmani Posted December 30 Report Share Posted December 30 Hmmmmm, this is a hard one, but i will gander a guess at it.If it happens during lunch, recess or study hall, i would say go for it. But if it happens during any of the academic classes back off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted December 30 Report Share Posted December 30 Originally posted by i3itch i used to back off when the guy would like me.i never really realized it though.i feel like it has lost the challenge... i dunno yah know i get tired of girls saying this....challenge CHALLENGE. This isn't a mountain to be conquered it's people with feelings.Next time a girl wonders why a guys an ass or don't wanna commit, is cuz we don't wanna be part of girls silly games anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted December 30 Report Share Posted December 30 Originally posted by iamsamurai yah know i get tired of girls saying this....challenge CHALLENGE. This isn't a mountain to be conquered it's people with feelings.Next time a girl wonders why a guys an ass or don't wanna commit, is cuz we don't wanna be part of girls silly games anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mursa Posted December 30 Report Share Posted December 30 Women simply love a Challenge and none is more true for when it comes to the opposite sex . They simply aren't attracted to things that are easily atained . Therefore playing "hard to get " or "dis-interested " is a tactic that works well with women . But I do think that the right time to tell her how you actually feel is after you become intimate with her , and if your good in the SACK then you don't really have much to fear as for her leaving or backing off from you as .........YOU got her HOOKED on your skills .Well, thats how i perceive things........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted January 1 Report Share Posted January 1 Originally posted by dance2this does he always have to play hard to get and never tell her he really like her? in short, yes.either don´t tell her, or go the other way: tell her you like her so much you´ll only hurt yourself and that you two can´t see each other any more (that one´s lethal, she can´t possibly resist the challenge).don´t matter how you put it. you have to BE hard to get, not just PLAY hard to get. get some standards and communicate them.it´s always one who chases and one who retreats. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dance2this Posted January 1 Author Report Share Posted January 1 tastey- yo're saying that telling her you can't see anymore creates more of a challenge or is just something to break her heart? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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