jxfx Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 are your clubbing friends the same as your regular friends? its nice to be able to go out to a club with your friends, and although most of mine are decent club heads, some of my friends are just not into it. drives me crazy because i wish i could just share my fun with them! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerseyclubin Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 most of my friends are all people i meet at clubs.........all my regular friends are wack and are not into it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
urbanstylz14o Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 Ya kinda same problem, most of my friend aren't really into the club scene and I get to hear "we wanna stay local tonight or don't feel like dealing with that scene tonight" so half the time I just go out by myself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkidnewyork Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 We'll be like, "let's just go to the city for dinner with so-and-so" a couple drinks later and we're like, "who needs to eat dinner, lets dance!". My non-clubbing friends can't keep up. They're good for going to the movies. You gotta still love 'em though. They'll be there to take care of us when our knees and hips stop working and our memories fail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
qball Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 Originally posted by clubkidnewyork My non-clubbing friends can't keep up. They're good for going to the movies. You gotta still love 'em though. They'll be there to take care of us when our knees and hips stop working and our memories fail. HELL YEAH! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest matthewnothing Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 It's odd with me, some of my club friends are my close regurlar friends too, and others aren't.. i did a silly thing and mixed an online friend (messagebaord) and made her realtime... didn't work out... too much long distance, so we broke up, and I decided to hang out on another board a bit more.... thus me being here...... meet people local, and chill like that...n"" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
housedog Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 I have a friend who loves Danny T like me and then I have (2)friends who like going to parties and shit like that. But my close friends cant do it, they say that they are too old and they are younger than me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
italianp7 Posted April 16 Report Share Posted April 16 my best friend hatesssssssss clubs i have to beggggggggg her to come with me and the only time she actually goes is if it's my b-day or somthing like that.,... it sux... i only have like 1close friend who loves to go to clubs and thats it// the other people i go to clubs with i usually met them there or they are friends of friends Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aixgurlie Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 all my best friends that i go out with all together all are into clubs as much as i am so far its not a problema t all going out. The only problem is with my bf cuz he likes to go to the hip hop room and im always in the house room so its kind of annoying that he doesnt share my likeing for that music Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muzikchick Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 the problem i HAD wuz, my "friends" wanted to meet guys, or get men to buy them drinks, and if they didn't meet anyone, they were miserable....which made me miserable. they weren't into music, almost at all....this is a clash........movie buddies are great....but, i don't need anyone to sit at the movies with me....that is quiet time...i can do that alone.....last movie i saw was with a "friend".....but, i don't think he wanted to just be a movie buddy.....to bad. i'll go alone, then.for a coffee/tea time, I have my sister....she has kids and a job...so we have to schedule that kinda stuff.....also, the honesty person (most times).....and my other friend is married........the one that threw off the 2 live crew dancer off stage.....she won't go out cuz then her husband will....so neither go.other friend, has a son....must plan 3 months in advance...then we both forget.....what to do......when i need music.....music is my companion in the club....all else is details. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muzikchick Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 oh and, I don't like to mix work with play....rarely...always turns into drama.i dont need drama....had enough of that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
agentplaya1 Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 Originally posted by italianp7 my best friend hatesssssssss clubs i have to beggggggggg her to come with me and the only time she actually goes is if it's my b-day or somthing like that.,... it sux... i only have like 1close friend who loves to go to clubs and thats it// the other people i go to clubs with i usually met them there or they are friends of friends Hey don't worry, I'll go to the clubs with you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hmnyc Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 all the people i go out with are from years of clubbing its actually quite nice how many friends i have made, my friends at home suck they are all into the bar scene which i can't stand it. i don't know everytime i go out to clubs i always end up meeting new people, just got to be friendly and get numbers, make ur aquaintances you know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbn Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 Actually, I have a female "friend/customer" who was supposed to come to NYC this weekend to party at Classics night at Black with me. Then she told me... "BBN " when I told my friends that I was going to sleep from 10pm - 1am so I could go with you to this club at 3am, they all looked at me like I was crazy! Please call me when you can take off work and go at a normal time like 11pm"Maybe this is why I keep hooking up with psycho strippers & club girls. The normal girls can't handle my lifestyle! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oldtimer Posted April 17 Report Share Posted April 17 Originally posted by bbn Maybe this is why I keep hooking up with psycho strippers & club girls. The normal girls can't handle my lifestyle! aww.. you poor bastard.. :nopity: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
agentplaya1 Posted April 18 Report Share Posted April 18 My regular friends suck. I just got into clubs a while back and once in a while they'll come out with me, but they prefer bars those drunk bastards. I need a new group of friends that likes to go to clubs and can stay out till all hours, cuz my reg. friends just can't handle it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funeralhome Posted April 18 Report Share Posted April 18 all of my friends all go to clubs, which is weird, 'cause I never thought of it that way, but yea every single person I know and my closest and best friends are major clubheads. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rob112 Posted April 18 Report Share Posted April 18 Seems like a common theme here. None of my friends would consider going to a club and then if they did would just be on a mission to try to pick up on chicks. Then get pissed b/c no one is giving them the time of day. Has anyone that has been posting on this topic met out with people from this message board? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
agentplaya1 Posted April 19 Report Share Posted April 19 cool idea, all us peeps that got reg. friends who don't like to go clubbin should get together and hit the clubs. I'm always up for meetin new people Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crowina Posted April 19 Report Share Posted April 19 amen to that. god bless them though... i have a few friends that come out with me and then say they are tired and want to go home a 2 am..... the next day they are telling me what a great time they had.....oh if they only knew. Originally posted by clubkidnewyork My non-clubbing friends can't keep up. They're good for going to the movies. You gotta still love 'em though. They'll be there to take care of us when our knees and hips stop working and our memories fail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danihawk Posted April 19 Report Share Posted April 19 Originally posted by rob112 Seems like a common theme here. None of my friends would consider going to a club and then if they did would just be on a mission to try to pick up on chicks. Then get pissed b/c no one is giving them the time of day. Has anyone that has been posting on this topic met out with people from this message board? I have the same problem. My friends will come out about twice a year, and then they get grumpy if guys won't buy them drinks, there's no hip hop room, or I want to stay past 4am. I definitely need some hardcore clubber friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funeralhome Posted April 20 Report Share Posted April 20 i think that's so odd that none of you guys have a group of friends/regular friends that enjoy going to clubs as much as you do. like i said every person i know whether we met at a club, in the street, online, in school, since i'm a kid etc. etc. is as nutty as i am about dancing and going to bars/clubs/lounges etc. guess i'm lucky. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aknelma Posted April 20 Report Share Posted April 20 well my closest friend and I share the same taste in music....she loves clubbing just as much as I do so its great....we are out together always there for the same reason....to enjoy the music and dancemy other friends....forget it....as most of u mentioned before...mine too like to just go to bars....sit and drink... no movement what so ever....I die of borredom after few hours of conversations.... NEED TO MOVE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aknelma Posted April 20 Report Share Posted April 20 Originally posted by italianp7 my best friend hatesssssssss clubs i have to beggggggggg her to come with me and the only time she actually goes is if it's my b-day or somthing like that.,... it sux... i only have like 1close friend who loves to go to clubs and thats it// the other people i go to clubs with i usually met them there or they are friends of friends you can definatelly join us Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pandora1305 Posted April 20 Report Share Posted April 20 Most of my regular friends started out as club friends. Then we got a shore house together and everyone started hooking up. 8 of the crew got married last year, to each other! ~4 club kid couples! 2 of the couples have bought houses, 1 couple a condo downtown and the other couple renting a cottage in the sticks.I still go clubbing with them from time to time, but they just don't go out like they used to...and now I am bored w my bf and need to find new clubkids to play with!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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