princess0621 Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 can't walk down a city street without hearing some sort of whistle or stupid ass comments. I was in manhattan today on an interview and wearing a skirt suit and I couldn't go one block without having to roll my eyes at someone for sounding like such an ass.[This message has been edited by princess0621 (edited 01-24-2001).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jennEfer Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 i know exactly what u mean!!! i have gotten crude comments, whistles, followed, and even the thong song sung to me!! a girl cannot walk around the city without being harrased! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renten Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 You should just consider it a compliment and move on...but if you wanna make the guy who makes the comment look like a douchebag..next time turn around and walk up to him and pretend the comment really turns you on and ask if he'd like to go have sex RIGHT NOW..i guarantee he wont know what do do and he'll look like a moron Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
njtype-s Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Becuz all us guys would give a pinky for one long passonate night alone with you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
msoprano Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by njtype-s:Becuz all us guys would give a pinky for one long passonate night alone with you?took the words right out of my mouth------------------TWILO'S WACK !!!! Sorry guys it is "dont be affraid to walk out on anything in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat coming from around the corner" Robert DeniroAIM:msoprano13Email:msoprano13@yahoo.com "IM GONNA MAKE YOU AN OFFER YOU CANT REFUSE" MSOPRANO13 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tjspooky Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 sorry renten, not good advice. most construction workers would probably just pass you around.take it as a compliment, cause I know how much you girls complain if guys don't hit on you. catch 22.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
princess0621 Posted January 25 Author Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by msoprano13: Originally posted by njtype-s:Becuz all us guys would give a pinky for one long passonate night alone with you?took the words right out of my mouth oh really? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lextacy Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 I usually just smile and take it as a compliment. But I find when they say something like "hey baby, how you doing today" if you just look them straight in the eye and answer right back it usually catches them off guard and they put their tounge back in their mouth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a691vcc Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 AT LEAST UR NOT A FAT SLOB. OTHERWISE SOMEONE WHISTLING AT U WOULD MAKE UR DAY. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarioNY Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by a691vcc:AT LEAST UR NOT A FAT SLOB. OTHERWISE SOMEONE WHISTLING AT U WOULD MAKE UR DAY.Oh come on...she enjoyed every minute of it...damn she couldn't wait till she got home to tell us all about it! Listen princess...I know certain comments can be rude, especially physical passes, but relax a bit...you know you enjoy the attention. Just be glad your getting it...cause 10 years from now you might not be getting this attention. ------------------ MarioNY.com AOL:ZOMBLA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 I know what you guys are talking about I walk to work everyday and i walk down the same street everyday also and I see the same ppl and sometime they say hello and I do also.But then you get these delivery people that are rude and they hiss at you and growl at you and I can't stand it.I just mind my own business and go about my business!------------------Hi! How ya doing? where ya been, I had thoughts of you all night long. Can't describe what you did, but you got me so!Aolimer: Glowgirl42000Email: Sugar4@earthlink.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morpheus_ Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by princess0621:can't walk down a city street without hearing some sort of whistle or stupid ass comments. I was in manhattan today on an interview and wearing a skirt suit and I couldn't go one block without having to roll my eyes at someone for sounding like such an ass.[This message has been edited by princess0621 (edited 01-24-2001).]i think it's very simple really.. no man would bother even to give you a look if he didn't think you looked good. it's just that insecure men have serious communication problems that cause the whistling and rude comments.. don't brand them pigs.. at most, they don't have the guts to come up to you and tell you that you look good in the suit.. you should feel better about yourself rather than think they're assholes. after all, it's the woman that makes the dress, rarely the other way around..i actually met a very gorgeuos woman at a south american airport just by complimenting her lovely dress. i didn't see her again, but we exchanged emails after a 10 minute conversation and we still write eachother.. i'd rather risk humiliation or being shut down by a pretty woman than risk never seeing anyone quite like that again. life passes us by pretty quickly ladies and gentlemen.. it makes no sense to pass up opportunites to meet new people, compliment what you like and as for those who get complimented: take it like a lady/gentleman.oh and don't anyone tell me that they don't like being noticed.. i'm sure they could be happier wearing more plain clothes, if that's the case.(i do have much more to say about this, but my low fat vanilla ice-cream is melting in my living room.. gotta go chill )morph_ ------------------This is my churchThis is where i heal my hurtsIt's in natural grace Or watching young lives shape It's in minor keys Solutions and remedies Enemies becoming friends When bitterness ends This is my church Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Hey, I'm a girl and I love it when guys whistle at me. Well, actually, younger guys, not old men!!! romy20------------------ ARE YOU FEELING IT?_________________________clubchick20@hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
princess0621 Posted January 25 Author Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by morpheus_: i think it's very simple really.. no man would bother even to give you a look if he didn't think you looked good. it's just that insecure men have serious communication problems that cause the whistling and rude comments.. don't brand them pigs.. at most, they don't have the guts to come up to you and tell you that you look good in the suit.. you should feel better about yourself rather than think they're assholes. after all, it's the woman that makes the dress, rarely the other way around..i actually met a very gorgeuos woman at a south american airport just by complimenting her lovely dress. i didn't see her again, but we exchanged emails after a 10 minute conversation and we still write eachother.. i'd rather risk humiliation or being shut down by a pretty woman than risk never seeing anyone quite like that again. life passes us by pretty quickly ladies and gentlemen.. it makes no sense to pass up opportunites to meet new people, compliment what you like and as for those who get complimented: take it like a lady/gentleman.oh and don't anyone tell me that they don't like being noticed.. i'm sure they could be happier wearing more plain clothes, if that's the case.(i do have much more to say about this, but my low fat vanilla ice-cream is melting in my living room.. gotta go chill )morph_ Don't get me wrong of course every lady/gentleman love to recieve a compliment and I fully agree with what you wrote but just as you said approach them like a person. What I don't appreciate is the whistling and the(no offense to anyone because i am puerto rican..although I don't look it)but the spanish guys who say shit under their breath like I don't understand them especially when I am tired and walking almost 20 blocks to get to penn. There's more to it than that but I am sure everyone get's the point. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahkim13 Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 I don't have a real big problem when a guy whistles or makes a quick stupic comment on the street. What I do have a problem when guys turn the harmless 'compliment' into something crude.Just to back myself up before I tell you the story, I NEVER give a guy a dirty look for making a comment or whisteling. So one night I'm walking home and I pass by this car of two guys when one of them yells out the window "Hey baby, get in my car!". I turned around and glanced back and without saying anything, kept walking. Then he yells, "Hey can I lick your pussy?!" I kept walking. Then he yells out, "You got a fat ass!" I turned back and said, "You got a fat mouth!"Now to get back to the matter at hand. I have the feeling that Princess was, as am I, wondering why guys feel the need to make comments like this. Maybe someone can explain.SK13"I may have a fat ass, but no, you can't lick my pussy." ------------------Footsteps on the dancefloor remind me baby of you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
princess0621 Posted January 25 Author Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by sarahkim13:Now to get back to the matter at hand. I have the feeling that Princess was, as am I, wondering why guys feel the need to make comments like this. Maybe someone can explain.SK13That is a point that I thank you for bringing up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
diesel77 Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Hardly ever youll have 1 guy doing this. Most of the times shit like that happends with a couple of guys or more who will try to impress each other by yelling shit out cause neither one has the balls or brains to actually have anyting meaningfull to say....thats just how i see ittommy------------------"Nobody picks on a strong man." - Atlas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stompy Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 maybe it's just the lack of intelligence, or maybe it's the need to be noticed on the part of the guy who's doing itwk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubhead32 Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Well i just finished reading everyone's responses and I have to tell ya that I agree with a lot of people and I disagree with alot of people.I agree that girls should take the whistling and shouting as a compliment but I definetly disagree with how guys should approach a girl.Guys whistling,and shouting at a girl usually gets you nowhere with a girl.Try my appraoch if I see a girl walking by and she is really hot.I first try to make eye contact and if she smiles then I usaully walk over and introduce myself, and ask her if she would like to join me for a drink.Fellas trust me on this, it works thats why I have a girlfiend for 1 and a half yrs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 everyone wants and loves the attention (regardless of what they say).------------------aim: djmikedrDJmikeDR@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a691vcc Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 aaaaaaight aaaight, yo listen itz really about havin fun at someone elsez xpence. if the guy really really wanted to hit it, he would act just like all these "sensitive guyz" on this board right here. Of course, the guy would love for the chick to run up and say please stick it in me, but i don't think that iz the response they R xpecting. U rarely ever see guyz do this alone either. the only way that I can possibly feel for u ladiez iz if some dirty ass dirtbag muthafuka gives u a problem. I'm glad I never have to xperience that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neumonic Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 I could understand why you roll your eyes princess0621. They really do sound stupid when they start to whistle and yell out stupid stuff. But--you should be flattered. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueangel Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 You guys keep on talking about how us, girls, should be flattered . . . well . . .yea, if someone told me "You're beautiful" or something to that extent I normally reply with a simple "Thank you." However, when you have some guys growling at you and shouting some things like "Damn baby, wanna come home with me?" or "Let's see what's under that skirt." Well, it's a lil' hard to take that in a flattering way. Ya know? To answer your questions as to why some men do this. I believe it's because there must be women out there that are attracted to men acting like this. Other wise, why would they do it. I mean if they get rejected time and time again then I'm pretty sure they'll give up. But there MUST be some women out there that give in to these type of hooting and growling. Just my opinion.BlueAngel------------------"Dreams come true; without that possibility, nature would not incite us to have them." -John Updike Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
exodust Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 I hear you girls, sometimes on the subway I find guys staring at me and they just keep fucking staring, it makes me really uncomfortable. I start thinking I have a booger in my nose or something! And the the lude, rude comments that we always recieve, I JUST YELL RIGHT BACK!!!MAKES YOU FEEL GREAT ------------------A bag of KB's, $60 A glass bowl, $85 A lighter, $ 1 GETTING HIGH, PRICELESS!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jilly Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Ok..I have alot to say about this topic..since I have been continually harassed since I was 12 years old...I HATE when guys make comments, whistle, harass..etc...HATE. Mikey, yes..its true. I purposely put on my walkman as soon as I step out the door every day of my life so I do not have to hear this shit. The best thing is..guys still try to talk to me..even though its apparent I can not hear them! Middle of winter..snowing..wrapped up in a down coat and boots..stupid guys still yell out "hey sexy.." etcetc...its sick. I will not wear a short skirt..or shorts..ever in manhattan. No way. Now..in some cases..there is a cultural reason why this is done. In latin american countries..to call out, whistle, hiss, make comments is considered ok..its what "the males are expected to do" Now when some of the people move up here, they take that with them, even though in America we are supposed to think differently than this. This comment is not meant to be rude to anyone from latin america..it is what I learned in my communication classes in college. Its a cultural thing. This kind of attention is NOT flattering or enjoyable. Its harassment. Plain and simple. ------------------" I give in to sin ..Because you have to make this life liveable "-DMSmoknjilly@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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