facktorykat Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 OK, here's the deal.... I met this chick at SF and we hooked up...she had a BF of 4 years that I didnt know about at first or I woulda never hooked up with her in the first place...anyway I find out and tell her that I'm not gseeing her anymore but she dumped him for me...then he goes and proposes to her, she accepts and i don't hear from her for 3 days...then she calls and tells me that she wants me back and she will end it with him forever and me, the asshole, takes her back. Everything is going great for about a month and then out of nowhere today she calls me and tells me she wants to work things out with her ex.... The thing is I know that she is going to call my ass again and what the fuk do I do? I was really starting to fall for this girl and all and I really dont know what to do. I mean, should i understand that she was with this guy for 4 years and its hard for her to get over it, i know it took me a while to get over my ex of 3 years, or do i just tell her to go fuck herself? She was telling me that she was falling in love with me and all this shit but all my friends say she is full of shit. I dont know, Im a very good judge of character...... whatever...see guys, i need advice here...bad! Thanx all ------------------FACTORY FRIDAYS...CHEETAH SATURDAYS....PM FOR INFO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deanna11 Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 if you take her back, don't think the oscillating will end. apparently it still hasn't even after 4 years with this other guy------------------[img]http://glowballsig.gif|/img] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cuteboobie Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 if ur with someone for 4 yrs there's history there r feelings and all that other bs...in my opinion, i'd tell the girl to go figure out her feelings all on her own and then maybe when she is sure u two could talk it over...4 yrs takes a long time to get over....------------------i was alone thinking i was just fine, i wasnt looking for anyone to be mine, i thought love was just a fabrication, a train that wouldnt stop at my station,home, alone, that was my consignment,solitary confinement,So when we met i was getting around u,i didnt know i was looking for love till i found u... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jprutig Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 she's using you to get at himdon't be so blindshe's fucking with you - big timetell her to screw and don't believe a word out of her lying, two timing mouth. don't go near her. don't talk to her.and if you think about getting back with her, just ask yourself - how good will his dick taste? because you know it's been in her mouth recently...------------------you can judge the quality and content of one's character by the way they treat someone that can do nothing for them... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mel-o-d Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Ewweee ...You're rebound! Stay away from this girl. She has no clue what she wants, and you deserve someone who knows they want to be with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
translucent Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 RUN.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Sorry sweetie but I gotta agree with others.. She's confused about her feelings, the old bf who she's been with for years and this new guy who she's interested in but doesn't know if he's worth giving up the old bf.... Let her figure shit out on her own.. Right now she's obviously between both of you and both of you are willing to take her back.. I feel bad for the girl too because she seems very confused (or maybe I'm being naive and she's just a manipulative bitch).. So tell her that you're not willing to play this game of who she'll be with this week or next week.. If she goes back to her old bf, don't be upset because it's better this way than her going back to him after you guys are a couple and you're in love with her.. Good luck hun.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
risa06 Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 I think she needs some time to find out for herself what she really wants...until she does, stay away from her! just mo Good Luck!L Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laurensomers Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Originally posted by translucent:RUN.Run far far away.... The rebound relationship never works. This chick needs time to herself before she can be in another relationship. Fuck her, she is using you.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snappy139 Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 The biatch is like..... twisted!!!!!! Stop wasting your freggin time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gumby Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Yo kid,I can only emphasize what the rest are saying. I had this thing wit a girl who had just dissed an engagement and the s@*! went sour. Its just way to emotional of a thing for anyone to recoop quickly, even though she thinks she is. Im sorry you like fell for this chick, but you gots ta get out man - Just Roll!!Gumby------------------Don't Believe the Hype Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathyo Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Def. a rebound situation. I won't say anything about her. In most cases the girl isn't "toying" with you (although it may seem that way), she's just confused. The whole point of a rebound is to distract yourself from the former b/f and that is NOT the right teason to be with someone.What she needs to do is be alone...seriously, for a few months. You can't make clear decisions otherwise, there are too many emotions involved.------------------ ~*~*~Don't use time or words carelessly, neither can be retrieved.~*~*~ AIM: cathyoNYC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dale77 Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Originally posted by laurensomers: Run far far away.... And run QUICKLY!!------------------You're only young once Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slyonspromos Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 bro dont worry she was with him for 4 years dropped his ass for you who cares if she goes back let the bitch go shell always come back screaming for more dont be so depressed you did something that no other guy probablly did for her b4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andre9000 Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 I gotta disagree with the peeps here. I say you tell her "If you bring $20 and a pack of cigs, you can suck my cock and I'll let you spend the night on my floor". If she don't like the sound of that, leave the ho to herself. Peace.------------------Talkin 'bout what we gon' be when we grow up/I said what you wanna be? She said alive/It made me think for a minute then looked in her eyes/I coulda died.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littled Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 lesson: don't hook up with chics you meet in the factory... you're lucky if she even really IS a chic.lol.. j/k------------------~ you see house is a feeling ~~ the dj, the music, and me ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djrman Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Forget it bro. No need to dwell over it. She's just not worth your time. Have some dignity and value yourself. Why stress yourself when there's plenty of women out there? Keep calm and I'm sure with time you'll find a good one. Unless you're willing to become her psychologist.. LOL!! Run and don't look back.one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Originally posted by littled:lesson: don't hook up with chics you meet in the factory... you're lucky if she even really IS a chic.lol.. j/kHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEY!!!! I'm offended!!!!!!!! Be nice damn it Btw, I got a couple of pics with your drunk lil face from Clevelander Gotta make copies and get them over to you.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sha-sha Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Sorry to hear about your breakup. If u get back w/this girl you are totally setting yourself up. Maybe to her the grass is always greener on the other side. When she has u, she wants the ex & vice versa. Ask yourself....do u really want to be w/a girl like that? Can u trust her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littled Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Originally posted by mysteriousss: HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEY!!!! I'm offended!!!!!!!! Be nice damn it Btw, I got a couple of pics with your drunk lil face from Clevelander Gotta make copies and get them over to you..HA!... i take it back- i take it back!... i'll even GO to the factory with you... i'd love to see the pics from clevelander... i think?!? ...i'll be back in soon... factory 2nd weekend in may.. is it a date?------------------~ you see house is a feeling ~~ the dj, the music, and me ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
playboychick Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 "Got dumped..." is such a bad way too look at it. Think of this as a great opportunity for you to say,"Next in line, please step up! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
korzo- Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Originally posted by littled: HA!... i take it back- i take it back!... i'll even GO to the factory with you... i'd love to see the pics from clevelander... i think?!? ...i'll be back in soon... factory 2nd weekend in may.. is it a date?You have pics, Z? Is there a pic of some chick in a bandana? Who WAS that?!! D, see you soon...------------------Can you feel that rhythm moving through your system? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Originally posted by littled: HA!... i take it back- i take it back!... i'll even GO to the factory with you... i'd love to see the pics from clevelander... i think?!? ...i'll be back in soon... factory 2nd weekend in may.. is it a date?Haha.. OMG those pics are too funny.. Everyone was so drunk there.. You look good though coz you got your tan and your sunglasses on All the NYers have RED faces, especially me.. And hellz yeah it's a date My fave place in the world.. Def lemme know when you get to NY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexxxi Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 GET RID OF HER...no one needs all this back and forth crap!!! I know you like this person alot but, honestly, are you enjoying the fact that she is yanking on your heart strings so much??? I am adventuring to guess that you don't like it thus the heartache is simply not worth it!!!Hope things get better!!! ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littled Posted April 26 Report Share Posted April 26 Originally posted by korzo-: You have pics, Z? Is there a pic of some chick in a bandana? Who WAS that?!! D, see you soon...that chic in the bandana was hot!...lol... J/K...rest up korzo.... comin' to getchya...------------------~ you see house is a feeling ~~ the dj, the music, and me ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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