xkingchangox Posted August 3 Report Share Posted August 3 Ladies I have a question which would you prefer if you found out your b/f cheated. That it was a 5 hour romance or that he had a full blown relationship on the side ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted August 4 Report Share Posted August 4 Well niether but if I hadda choose I'd say the 5 hour thing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aljedynak Posted August 4 Report Share Posted August 4 I would rather he have a five hour fling. I would feel more foolish if he had time to have a whole second relationship on the side and I had no clue. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silente Posted August 4 Report Share Posted August 4 Definitely 5 hours - I'd rather it be at least hypothetically caused by drugs or something. Like, better he got carried away while rolling than devoting himself to a whole other relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bellaragazza Posted August 5 Report Share Posted August 5 definately the 5 hour thing. Sex is only sex, and meaningless sex can "somewhat" be understood.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momotx Posted August 5 Report Share Posted August 5 the 5 hour thing...i think i would feel even more betrayed if it was an actual relationship and his emotions were involved w/ another person... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted August 5 Report Share Posted August 5 ok first if all... i cant choose one or the other.... everyone says that the 5 hour one wouldnt seem so bad cuz it was "meaningless" but that makes it SO much worse. if it was "so meaningless" then whyd he have to cheat in the first place??? obviously the guy doesnt give a shit about u if hes gonna cheat on u with someone for a lil fling that doesnt mean shit to him..... and the full blown relationship thing is bad too... thats just self-explanatory. if hes gonna have another relationship other than the one he has with u... then ur obviously not good enuf for him... and i say this allllll from experience.. cuz its all happened to me... so.. yea. :bigfinger this goes out to all u cheaters Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bellaragazza Posted August 5 Report Share Posted August 5 thats true too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randall16 Posted August 6 Report Share Posted August 6 Id say neither also...how hard is it to stay faithful...if you dont want to be with that person...than DONT...its just that simple...I have gone through all that shit tooo....it all sucks....if it was the 5 hour fling then that makes you feel like you are not good enuf for your man or woman....and a relationship....just sucks... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted August 6 Report Share Posted August 6 The 5 hour fling is not nearly as bad IMO. Having been involved in a threesome for a little while, it was perfectly fine and lots of fun when it was kept on a sexual level. When it looked to me like there was more than that- I completely flipped out. It hurts waaaay more to think your partner cares about another person than it does to think they're just lusting after someone.Still, neither one is acceptable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted August 6 Report Share Posted August 6 5 hr. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtotaleclipsex Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 5 hour thingThe 5 hour is just pure lust, which isn't good but it shows the guy gave into weakness. The relationship shows he gave his heart to someone else. Better to have screwed someone else than to have loved someone else. Either way though..his ass is out the door. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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