nSyNcBaBy Posted September 24 Author Report Share Posted September 24 thanks everyone.... as much as all of u had different opinions... its all helpful Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 Originally posted by flyboy7 my thoughts --2)guy says he doesn't care about sex -- hmmm... makes me wonder whether he gets some lay on the side maybe, but that of course depends on your relationship, may be you don't have sex as in actual penetration but please each other otherwise, then he still gets what he wantsok, i cant just sit around and read this post anymore, time for my input:i am linabina's bf. and i have never EVER cheated on her. i have no reason to want to get laid behind her back. im completely in love with her, more than ive ever been before, and sex just doesnt really matter that much. just like i've told her a million times, im not in this relationship to fuck, im in it cuz i love her and love being around her. i am totally "satisfied" without sex, cuz my girl happens to be VERY good at all the other stuff. i wanna make love to her so much, but i waited almost a year, i CAN wait longer. whenever she's ready, then it'll happen, no sooner. it may never happen. we may not be together anymore when she decides she's ready for sex. but i hope that whoever gets the privelege to take her virginity away truly deserves it. but even if we're together for years and it never happens, i'll never think that the time was wasted. cuz like i said, sex just really doesnt matter that much. i love her too much to care about sex...just spending time with her is more satisfaction than any orgasm that she could give me. whew!!! ok, i think that's everything i had to say. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rose1722 Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 wowie.. that was so sweet ... u both are lucky to have each other and I'm very happy for u guys~! Time will tell.. and just go with the flow! Don't think too hard cause sometimes it just messes u up more! Do what u think is best for you and when it happens it happens... For myself I lost my virginity to my boyfriend that I'm with now..I was 17 and the day I saw him I slept with him. I am not proud to say that, but it happened. I'm 19 now and I'm still with him .... so it worked out =) I wish I waited though, but we're in love still so it's all good. Best of luck to u!!! Tomomi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reliant Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Good Luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by linabina thanks everyone.... as much as all of u had different opinions... its all helpful Hope you find some sorta answer.....Just don't rush into anything and talk to your boyfriend. What does he have to say? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted September 25 Author Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Hope you find some sorta answer.....Just don't rush into anything and talk to your boyfriend. What does he have to say? he replied a few posts ago........... if u wanna know how he feels u should scroll up and read it cuz he explained it perfectly......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted September 25 Author Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by xtcgspot ok, i cant just sit around and read this post anymore, time for my input:i am linabina's bf. and i have never EVER cheated on her. i have no reason to want to get laid behind her back. im completely in love with her, more than ive ever been before, and sex just doesnt really matter that much. just like i've told her a million times, im not in this relationship to fuck, im in it cuz i love her and love being around her. i am totally "satisfied" without sex, cuz my girl happens to be VERY good at all the other stuff. i wanna make love to her so much, but i waited almost a year, i CAN wait longer. whenever she's ready, then it'll happen, no sooner. it may never happen. we may not be together anymore when she decides she's ready for sex. but i hope that whoever gets the privelege to take her virginity away truly deserves it. but even if we're together for years and it never happens, i'll never think that the time was wasted. cuz like i said, sex just really doesnt matter that much. i love her too much to care about sex...just spending time with her is more satisfaction than any orgasm that she could give me. whew!!! ok, i think that's everything i had to say. <sigh> i love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted September 25 Author Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by linabina <sigh> i love grrrrrrrrr i mean i love u..... i HATE when i DO that!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flyboy7 Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by xtcgspot ok, i cant just sit around and read this post anymore, time for my input:i am linabina's bf. and i have never EVER cheated on her. i have no reason to want to get laid behind her back. im completely in love with her, more than ive ever been before, and sex just doesnt really matter that much. just like i've told her a million times, im not in this relationship to fuck, im in it cuz i love her and love being around her. i am totally "satisfied" without sex, cuz my girl happens to be VERY good at all the other stuff. i wanna make love to her so much, but i waited almost a year, i CAN wait longer. whenever she's ready, then it'll happen, no sooner. it may never happen. we may not be together anymore when she decides she's ready for sex. but i hope that whoever gets the privelege to take her virginity away truly deserves it. but even if we're together for years and it never happens, i'll never think that the time was wasted. cuz like i said, sex just really doesnt matter that much. i love her too much to care about sex...just spending time with her is more satisfaction than any orgasm that she could give me. whew!!! ok, i think that's everything i had to say. blya, vo mudak chill out man, it is my opinionyou girl asked for opinions of others, remember? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by flyboy7 blya, vo mudak chill out man, it is my opinionyou girl asked for opinions of others, remember? i know man, but i had to finally say something...cuz i wasnt gonna sit around and let people think that i was goin behind her back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by flyboy7 blya, vo mudak btw, what the hell does that mean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 Originally posted by xtcgspot ok, i cant just sit around and read this post anymore, time for my input:i am linabina's bf. and i have never EVER cheated on her. i have no reason to want to get laid behind her back. im completely in love with her, more than ive ever been before, and sex just doesnt really matter that much. just like i've told her a million times, im not in this relationship to fuck, im in it cuz i love her and love being around her. i am totally "satisfied" without sex, cuz my girl happens to be VERY good at all the other stuff. i wanna make love to her so much, but i waited almost a year, i CAN wait longer. whenever she's ready, then it'll happen, no sooner. it may never happen. we may not be together anymore when she decides she's ready for sex. but i hope that whoever gets the privelege to take her virginity away truly deserves it. but even if we're together for years and it never happens, i'll never think that the time was wasted. cuz like i said, sex just really doesnt matter that much. i love her too much to care about sex...just spending time with her is more satisfaction than any orgasm that she could give me. whew!!! ok, i think that's everything i had to say. i got faith you in b. you sound sincere and genuine... I didnt think you cheated on her or got ass on the side... if you love someone you do anything... even if it is wack off every hour... j/k... good luck to both of you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 for me personally, with all the diseases running around, it is good to be careful Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 and i'm thinking a few things...- you're both totally cool. i think u'r both really devoted to each other and having a great relationship- its awesome to wait and have intercourse when you're ready AND with someone you really love. most people don't get that, or they're really young (15 - 17) and only think they know what love is (no offense, but people grow so much emotionally as they get older)i do have a word of caution though, and this is just my atheist / agnostic / old and scraggly self (see, i'm obviously confused so you probably shouldn't listen) --- SEX IS SEX, LOVE IS LOVE!!! its just sex, don't put too much importance on it or you're setting yourself up for an emotional let down. sex is something we do to feel good and share that feeling with people we care about. if you love that person, all the better if you trust that person, you'll have a really good time too....but sex isn't the ultimate expression of love...its far from that. when you're ready, just feel good with each other. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 Coming back and reading all the replys and everything, makes me want to hit my head against a wall for having sex with an asshole!!!Ok well now that thats said....reading what you've been having to say and what your boyfrined said, it seems like you have such a wonderful relationship, and from what your boyfriend wrote, he seems like he loves and cares about you soooo much, thats such a special thing to have between two people, and I wish you both all the best in the future!!! I think im gonna cry now i wanna have a boyfriend like that romy20 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted September 26 Author Report Share Posted September 26 Originally posted by romy20 Coming back and reading all the replys and everything, makes me want to hit my head against a wall for having sex with an asshole!!!Ok well now that thats said....reading what you've been having to say and what your boyfrined said, it seems like you have such a wonderful relationship, and from what your boyfriend wrote, he seems like he loves and cares about you soooo much, thats such a special thing to have between two people, and I wish you both all the best in the future!!! I think im gonna cry now i wanna have a boyfriend like that romy20 awwwwwwwwwwwwwww girl that was so sweet of u.... my boyfriend is the greatest hehehehe i definitely do feel blessed to have someone to love me like he does. i have this one friend who complains to me about hating guys and how guys r such assholes and im always like "i know.." and then shes like "no u dont u bitch!! u and ur perfect relationship!!" lol... shes funny but anyways.... thank u for wishin us luck and all.. it means a lot! and dont worry about wanting a bf like that... he's out there somewhere... ull find him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted September 26 Author Report Share Posted September 26 Originally posted by barvybe and i'm thinking a few things...- you're both totally cool. i think u'r both really devoted to each other and having a great relationship]why, thank u for noticing! - its awesome to wait and have intercourse when you're ready AND with someone you really love. most people don't get that, or they're really young (15 - 17) and only think they know what love is (no offense, but people grow so much emotionally as they get older)i do have a word of caution though, and this is just my atheist / agnostic / old and scraggly self (see, i'm obviously confused so you probably shouldn't listen) --- SEX IS SEX, LOVE IS LOVE!!! its just sex, don't put too much importance on it or you're setting yourself up for an emotional let down. sex is something we do to feel good and share that feeling with people we care about. if you love that person, all the better if you trust that person, you'll have a really good time too....but sex isn't the ultimate expression of love...its far from that. when you're ready, just feel good with each other. well... see... some people are raised differently and are taught that sex is a form of expressing love.. not necessarily the ultimate form so i agree with u there... but i think that sex, especially for the 1st time, should be shared with the right person.. not just someone whos in it just to 'feel good'.. u know? idk... i just think that sex shouldnt happen without love... and even though i love my bf with all my heart, im not gonna do it till i know im ready for everything that comes along with it. cuz as much as people wanna think that its more of a physical thing than an emotional thing, i believe thats soooo not tru. but hey- to each his own~ thanks for the advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reliant Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 Originally posted by romy20 Coming back and reading all the replys and everything, makes me want to hit my head against a wall for having sex with an asshole!!!Ok well now that thats said....reading what you've been having to say and what your boyfrined said, it seems like you have such a wonderful relationship, and from what your boyfriend wrote, he seems like he loves and cares about you soooo much, thats such a special thing to have between two people, and I wish you both all the best in the future!!! I think im gonna cry now i wanna have a boyfriend like that romy20 romy,Dont be sad!!!! Dont worry you will find some one special !!!!!! :rainbow: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 Originally posted by linabina he replied a few posts ago........... if u wanna know how he feels u should scroll up and read it cuz he explained it perfectly......... That's what I get for speed reading.....Well it sounds like you two are happy were you are at thr moment, so why not just see how things go. You don't spend forever thinking about it, you'll drive yourself crazy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 Originally posted by romy20 Coming back and reading all the replys and everything, makes me want to hit my head against a wall for having sex with an asshole!!!Ok well now that thats said....reading what you've been having to say and what your boyfrined said, it seems like you have such a wonderful relationship, and from what your boyfriend wrote, he seems like he loves and cares about you soooo much, thats such a special thing to have between two people, and I wish you both all the best in the future!!! I think im gonna cry now i wanna have a boyfriend like that romy20 awdo you need a hug?::hugz:: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 Originally posted by romy20 Coming back and reading all the replys and everything, makes me want to hit my head against a wall for having sex with an asshole!!!Ok well now that thats said....reading what you've been having to say and what your boyfrined said, it seems like you have such a wonderful relationship, and from what your boyfriend wrote, he seems like he loves and cares about you soooo much, thats such a special thing to have between two people, and I wish you both all the best in the future!!! I think im gonna cry now i wanna have a boyfriend like that romy20 lol. im sorry girl, you sound like me. its pointless to regret the past because you cant change it. all you can do is learn from your mistakes. i figure, even if i had waited, i would have ended up giving it up to an asshole anyway (like my most recent ex boyfriend who i hate with a passion. we were together for over a year and i regret even wasting my time with him, of course while we were together i thought our relationship was great...), not every relationshp can last forever afterall... i wouldnt like guys liking me because i was a virgin either. i know guys who only go for virgins, and they will wait as long as they have to get what they want. trust no one!!! goodluck... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 I am sitting here laughing because seems like this has been turned into a guy bashing post. Believe me, I have had my run in with a fair share of assholes but I do think there are some good guys out there. I look at some of my friends and their boyfriends and wish I could have a relationship like they do. I do believe that we will eventually find a good guy and forget about all those other idiots!!1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 Originally posted by lollib I am sitting here laughing because seems like this has been turned into a guy bashing post. Believe me, I have had my run in with a fair share of assholes but I do think there are some good guys out there. I look at some of my friends and their boyfriends and wish I could have a relationship like they do. I do believe that we will eventually find a good guy and forget about all those other idiots!!1 YEAH What she said! But I'm looking for a gal meself!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 i wanna thank all the ladies that said i sound like such a good bf. hehe, i AM good. (j/k, j/k) all u girls will find a good guy, so dont get urselves down about it. just keep looking, and push the bad ones aside till u get what u want.i have friends if ur interested. hehehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted September 26 Report Share Posted September 26 Originally posted by linabina awwwwwwwwwwwwwww girl that was so sweet of u.... my boyfriend is the greatest hehehehe i definitely do feel blessed to have someone to love me like he does. i have this one friend who complains to me about hating guys and how guys r such assholes and im always like "i know.." and then shes like "no u dont u bitch!! u and ur perfect relationship!!" lol... shes funny but anyways.... thank u for wishin us luck and all.. it means a lot! and dont worry about wanting a bf like that... he's out there somewhere... ull find him You wanna know whats funny, well its actually sad.I do have a boyfriend, we've been together for over 2 years, but I don't know whats going on right now. It FEELS as if I DON'T have a boyfriend. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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