weyes

i can understand your being angry at the guy for what he said, but you can't go after his english; your spelling is atrocious and your punctuation isn't so hot either (unless you want to call it poetic license in a MAJOR way).but about your question, i know exactly what you mean. when one is alone, one can feel that less emotionally healthy and generally less attractive (physically, mentally, or in any other way) people seem to be coupled all over the place. it's also true, though, that when you were in relationships, there were people just as deserving as you who were alone. i think most of what happens in life is fate/chance, and that there's no explanation for why certain people meet people with whom they're compatible and other people don't.

my mom has come out here to visit me a lot of times over the years, so we've done most of the standard things, like the getty, the la brea tar pits, and disneyland (though we always go to disneyland and will again this time 'round!). i need some new things for us to do and some places for us to eat that you think are particularly special (and not too pricey!). also, i live in the city of orange, so going up to l.a. just for dinner wouldn't be worth it just to go to pink's or roscoe's chicken and waffles; we'd only go to a place like that if were doing something that day around there. help !!!

yup - thanks for the points , but they did come up blue/grey.

yes, indeed, and just when my mom is coming to visit from new york !!!

my friends, megan and jeff, knew that they'd be together forever, but they decided to get married because it was a great excuse to throw a huge party that'd include everyone they love. it was a 3-day affair, casual, a blast. otherwise, the "marriage" label just helped with some legal this-and-thats. they are just as happy and in just the same ways as in 1995.

one should choose one's words carefully; other people may actually be paying attention . tune in tomorrow.

hmmm - conflicting answers... just a note to lots of peeps on this board: i've been trying to give points to people i think deserve them, and it's mostly the same people; cp won't let me give points out to you guys again until i give points to other peeps, so that's why it seems like you aren't getting any love from weyes . i don't give 'em out to just anybody, ya know ?

i love rain, but i don't like how poor the drainage is out here. things are either clogged or not set up right in the first place. the roads are also extra treacherous, and people just don't know how to drive safely.

how old was he when he stopped doing these things?

there's no evidence to say that the reason why marriages in any study failed was because these people lived together first.

eating vegetables is good for you, even just for the feeling it gives you that you're doing something healthy for yourself . tune in tomorrow.

one must be careful what one writes on this board!

lulubell - maybe you know. the red ones are bad, the green ones are good - that's obvious. but what are the blue ones?

lulubell: is your dog a guide dog or is he just extra smart and helpful ? seriously, poccnr? i'm gonna hold you to that. the list now of people who've actually come to past meetups is no longer as shabby as it used to be. we girls are foxy, too !**lbell25678, somebitch, shortystar and weyes all bat their eyelashes

one study has only a few over 3,300 couples (and is 12 years old), one is from 1989, one is a right-wing website that also happens to be dedicated to one town in tennessee, and the last is only 712 couples. i am not shifting towards your opinion at all.

and stay clear of laurel . what a bad streak of luck!

when being nosey and snooping where one doesn't belong , one must be ready to handle whatever the results will be. tune in tomorrow.

i watched that whole damn gnr thing; what was the problem?

i wasn't being sarcastic!!! sheesh... everyone thinks i'm being sarcastic when i'm being serious and serious when i'm being sarcastic .

!i like that resolution, and i think you've gotten better about it than before, already. keep making progress on that one ! and i'm very stoked to see you here ! so good to see you ! i'm a little wary of it... i don't think it's been around long enough for it to be considered safe. there isn't evidence that one's eyes will still be ok after a few decades. do contacts bother your eyes?

i challenge you to not only produce those studies, but to produce enough and enough from around the world to prove that that is so.

doing favors for friends is a fantastic way to improve your karma . tune in tomorrow.

it's true, not always, but it's helped me, msbobois !

then why'd you give me negative points? don't dole 'em out if you don't want them --- golden rule . i've only given negative points to one person, and he was such an asshole that he's been banned. i'd rather be a stand-up person and write on the board for all to see that you should eat shit than to do it like a coward .

now that's a fair requirement.