! this thread was supposed to be about things SAID in the bedroom that turned us off, not ass-fucking. i would like to point out, however, that that's where a guy's g-spot is, and that you guys are missing out on not checking into that. i'm not into any kind of anal sex (though i am a girl), so i understand being icked out by ass-play, but i'm not the one who'd benefit from it, so it's different for me. get to know your bodies, boys! anycrap, back to what this thread was supposed to be about: things said during sex that throw us off. there was one time when my bf and i were trying to decide if we were actually gonna have sex that night or not; it was early on in the relationship and i always had a rule that we wouldn't have sex unless he spent the night. things were getting close to sex, though, and he couldn't stay over, so we had to figure it out. i said i didn't know what i wanted but asked what he thought, and he said he wanted to "make love to me." i said i didn't like that phrase 'cause he didn't love me, and he said he did. that really pissed me off, 'cause he only said he loved me 'cause he thought it'd make me agree to fuck him that night. what a way to kill the mood .