weyes

my dreams are so close to reality in that they're always about actual things and people in my life, that may or may not have happened. the only real differences are in the likelihood of the events having actually taken place. sometimes i wake up and have to ask my friends if we actually had the conversation that i really only dreamed about, etc. nope, i never have dreams with rainbows, secret evil caves, faraway planets, or marvin gaye coming back from the dead. o well. last night was a kooky one, though . i dreamt that one of my wisdom threads had loads of mean and nasty posts from dc people and it got bumped to the drama board! people were arguing and threatening each other, but i don't remember what it was about. when i woke up, the first thing i thought was, "shit, i'd better check the board and see what's happened." but then i thought about it and realized that nothing sweet lil' ol' me could start could get so hateful and out of hand. and why would dc wanna be so hostile ? so i took to laughing and went off to eat my morning cheerios .

sheesh - i always had problems with it - color me retarded... i like it, but every time i've tried it, my guy kept (ahem) falling out . any help wit' dat?

i dunno about people's theories about the psychological implications of doggystyle v. anal sex, but i will say doggystyle: good, anal sex: can't even go there, :no:thank you.

thanks for the love, cintron . and it's nice to know that some guy out there cares about someone other than himself !

well, vic, i dunno about this "one variety v. one other" method. i expect some sort of chart that shows your data, rating all of the tarts together on some sort of scale. i will except nothing less. harumph .

only if you don't know what we're talking about . but what are your thoughts on this, vic, as a guy? (or other guys, too!)

i only heard these when i moved out here, so the rest of you probably don't have to hear these - lucky you. what is up with: rad and awesome? aren't the 80s over? i guess that that was when l.a. was really on top, so maybe that's why this town has held onto those words. but really, now .

sorry, i didn't mean to stereotype, either. but no one that i personally have ever met, whether it be a casual acquaintance or a good friend, wasn't doing it to "be different" to some degree.

audrey hepburn rocks - she had a great energy. "roman holiday" is fabulous, "breakfast at tiffany's" has a great honesty about it (but that has a lot to do with its being written by truman capote), but "funny face" has got to be my favorite . she was also an amazing woman, devoting her later years to unicef. but i forget if she addressed her anorexia publicly or if she kept that private, only to emerge later in biographies.

i never saw "love story," so i am taking it out of context, but it is such a famous quote, and it's just so ridiculous a notion to me that i thought i'd just put that out there .

yeah, i think the only edible items i've ever bought from a 7-11 were wrapped (or slurpees) !

as i think i mentioned once in another thread, the radio in my car is broken, so i sing all the way from here to there. l love singing (and have actually improved a lot as far as melodic accuracy is concerned - meaning that i'm rarely sharp or flat anymore ), but i also have to to keep from falling asleep .

not everyone has the same skills or abilities as everyone else, and what might seem fundamental to one person might not be so important in someone else's life. so, not only does "easy for some, hard for others," come into play in today's thread, but also that people have different priorities which are neither right, nor wrong . tune in tomorrow.

i heard that chris rock bit, too, but he's a comedian, and that was a bit. is that what you think, and is that how you feel about your female friends?

hmmm... can't speak for most men, but my sex life needs some major changes, 'cause i've never had an orgasm from regular ol' penile/vaginal sex (don't know any other way to describe that...) and the guys in my past have mostly had a "me first" attitude, when i wasn't lucky enough to even get the "let's go at this mutually," attitude. and when the guys had come, why should they have bothered with me? sigh. i can say, however, that the best night of my sex life was last valentine's day, when i spoke up and told my bf that he had never made me come. he had me waiting for him all day and almost the whole night, when i got the day off of work just for v-day and everything just 'cause he was being an asshole. and he was always pressuring me into sex when i didn't want to have sex throughout our whole relationship (which i stood for for too long), so i figured that night was major payback time. anyway, he worked really hard at it (imagine my surprise...!) and made me come 5 times . and i didn't give him a thing that night. it doesn't come close to making up for all of the bad things he did to me, but it's a night to remember .

l.a., yo ! gotsta go, though, as it's 11:25. but i'll address the other topic we're on when i get back, too .

(sorry the title of this thread was spelled like that, but it was the only way i could get it to fit ) it just seems that, from what i've experienced, guys throw in innuendo with their female friends a lot, and i wonder if they'd actually "get with" their friends if the girls consented. you can see examples of this in older episodes of "friends," before everything got complicated w/ all the love between monica and chandler, and now rachel and joey - maybe (maybe that answers my question). chandler and joey used to always make comments about not minding if the girls showed them their boobs, slept with them, etc. they were supposed to be kidding, for laughs, but would they have really jumped at the chance, if it had been presented to them? that's tv, i know, but i see this joking with people in my life, too. any thoughts? (sorry this isn't that well-phrased; i'm in a bit of a hurry... but if you need me to explain it better, just let me know .)

i'll be off soon to see if saturday night live's a rerun i haven't seen (in 15 mins.). i'm a serious devotee of that show but missed a lot of this past season and am catching up .

i'm a clit girl all the way. i have yet to find a guy (though i have very little experience) who understands where or what it is. i kept directing my last bf's attention to it, but he didn't seem to be getting the message . it was only first with my help, and then towards the end of our relationship that it all started working out .

no, i didn't mean it like that , i was just asking why you were asking; it seemed as though you might've had a specific reason why you were home and might've had a story to tell .

i can never find what i'm looking for ! even when i know the exact title of the thread and type it in, it won't come up! or if i type in someone's screen name, nothing will come up... i'm looking for a phrase that i know i wrote and it's not coming up. can someone please tell me how i can search successfully ?

do i need a reason?

a guy has yet to find my g-spot (me neither, i suppose) so i can't answer that. but i disagree with dgmodel. too much going on is annoying; just give me what i want.

love does not mean never having to say you're sorry. tune in tomorrow.

seriously, not everyone has the same fairy, but i have never seen a tattoo that wasn't along the same lines as another i'd already seen. ie: "hey," i say, "what does that design mean?" "it's something tribal," my friend, whose name i won't reveal, says, "but i don't know what it's supposed to mean." "o," i say. "which tribe?" "i dunno. i just thought it was cool." or "hey, weyes, let me show you my new tattoo! i designed it myself. it's like, all about my ancestral background and the death of my first boyfriend. it also symbolizes my being a scorpio and how the apocolypse is near. and it's here, right on the base of my spine." <--- where almost all girls' tattoos are (ankles also being popular) "o," i say, "you mean this little vine, here?" "yeah. the twists are, like, a metaphor for the twists that life deals you. y'know?" i'm not trying to wax superior, it's just that people think that getting tattoos automatically makes them "different" and "original." and tattoos, to me, are so oft-repeated that they've become like blue/purple/green hair; not individualistic - if that was the goal - at all. now, to me, it's just the same as dying it blonde.