from experience, guys who say they're "whipped" usually bring it upon themselves. Women are creatures of stability and at the beginning of a relationship both guy and girl are so happy and excited about the whole thing that they spend entirely too much time together. Girls take it to heart, it becomes a routine and then they eventually start expecting that kind of attention all the time. besides, a guy who's whipped doesn't have to be. Don't want to spend time with a girl, don't want to do what she says just fucking tell her... it's not possible to say that someone whipped you because usually you're whipping yourself.