lollie60 Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 Let's say you have a steady GF/BF for a year now. No major probelms, sex is okay and it's all good. Then one day you meet someone just better, hotter, sexier, funnier + sweeter than your current GF/BF You like this person and you enjoy being with them MORE than your BF/GF. Would you break up a solid one yr. relationship when there are no real problems and absolutely no reason to break it off than the fact that you like this new amazing person better than your GF/BF ???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
embodiedhate Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 Did someone actually buy you a happy meal? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 Originally posted by embodiedhate Did someone actually buy you a happy meal? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anotherway83 Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 lol...i think this is the situation that most people who are cheating on their current partner find themselves in... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 Originally posted by lollie60 Let's say you have a steady GF/BF for a year now. No major probelms, sex is okay and it's all good. Then one day you meet someone just better, hotter, sexier, funnier + sweeter than your current GF/BF You like this person and you enjoy being with them MORE than your BF/GF. Would you break up a solid one yr. relationship when there are no real problems and absolutely no reason to break it off than the fact that you like this new amazing person better than your GF/BF ???? someone better always comes along... if not they were wouldnt be someone else... youd be with your past/current partner... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djinnom Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 once again...the ladder theory emerges true! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bless88 Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 Originally posted by lollie60 Let's say you have a steady GF/BF for a year now. No major probelms, sex is okay and it's all good. Then one day you meet someone just better, hotter, sexier, funnier + sweeter than your current GF/BF You like this person and you enjoy being with them MORE than your BF/GF. Would you break up a solid one yr. relationship when there are no real problems and absolutely no reason to break it off than the fact that you like this new amazing person better than your GF/BF ???? if you're even wondering this, move on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 I would say, if you're having problems, or feel there's something missing with the current relationship, tell your b/f, g/f and say that you'd like to take some time off to date.It's a normal thing, but sometimes those that seem more appealing/ attractive actually aren't .But re-evaluate your current situation, and think is it worth it to risk your current in order to try someone new ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 Originally posted by dgmodel someone better always comes along... if not they were wouldnt be someone else... youd be with your past/current partner... LOL, it doesn't *always* happen... I mean, I know the divorce rate is high, but it's not 100%... I agree with what Bless88 and Papa Smurf had to say.Anyway... if you did already have a bf/gf... how is it that you got to know this other person so well??? I mean, I know that crushes can come along... but I'd say that if you spent *that* much time with a crush that you started to consider breaking it off with your current partner (with whom you were previously happy)... you're most likely already cheating- emotionally, if not physically. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teknojunkee Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 Meeting somebody better than my girlfriend.....just NOT possible!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
micheloca Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 THERE IS NO ONE BETTER THAN MY GUY-NO WAY,NO HOW! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodiii Posted August 2 Report Share Posted August 2 Originally posted by lollie60 Let's say you have a steady GF/BF for a year now. No major probelms, sex is okay and it's all good. Then one day you meet someone just better, hotter, sexier, funnier + sweeter than your current GF/BF You like this person and you enjoy being with them MORE than your BF/GF. Would you break up a solid one yr. relationship when there are no real problems and absolutely no reason to break it off than the fact that you like this new amazing person better than your GF/BF ???? you shouldn't stay in a relationship because the other person doesn't do anything wrong... that just sounds like your waiting for someone else to come along...you should stay in a relationship because you love them...because they intrigue you...because they challenge you...because they excite you...because the sex is better than okay...because they kiss all of your pink parts...because when you see them you can't help but smile...because you can't imagine anyone else making you that happy...definitely break it off with the current if he don't do it for ya anymore... but don't dive right into a new relationship either...anyone new looks extra delicious when your bored...take your time... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
c-luv Posted August 3 Report Share Posted August 3 Originally posted by lollie60 Let's say you have a steady GF/BF for a year now. No major probelms, sex is okay and it's all good. Then one day you meet someone just better, hotter, sexier, funnier + sweeter than your current GF/BF You like this person and you enjoy being with them MORE than your BF/GF. Would you break up a solid one yr. relationship when there are no real problems and absolutely no reason to break it off than the fact that you like this new amazing person better than your GF/BF ???? been there...done that...worked out in my favor...cuz i loooooooooooove my baby.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PCR Posted August 3 Report Share Posted August 3 Originally posted by bodiii you shouldn't stay in a relationship because the other person doesn't do anything wrong... that just sounds like your waiting for someone else to come along...you should stay in a relationship because you love them...because they intrigue you...because they challenge you...because they excite you...because the sex is better than okay...because they kiss all of your pink parts...because when you see them you can't help but smile...because you can't imagine anyone else making you that happy... AMEN to that!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonStephen Posted August 3 Report Share Posted August 3 The grass is always greener....If you got something good and it doesnt make any sense to leave, then why go. You might be making a huge mistake. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PCR Posted August 3 Report Share Posted August 3 Originally posted by djjonstephen The grass is always greener....If you got something good and it doesnt make any sense to leave, then why go. You might be making a huge mistake. wrong. (at least in my opinion)If you doubt your love - right there you know you really don't feel that strongly about the person.Call me an old-style romantic fool but if you are looking for the real thing - you must NOT settle down for the second best.When you are really in love - you'd know it.now, dating is a different story.... a lot depends what you are looking for... ask yourself what do you want from that relationship - why are you with that person etc... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted August 3 Report Share Posted August 3 Originally posted by djjonstephen The grass is always greener.... its just fertilized with more bullshit... once youre there you see that... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted August 3 Report Share Posted August 3 Im gonna preface wha tim saying by telling u guys that i was getting my masters in relationship therapy....so i have a bit of knowledge behind what im gonna sayim not gonna get into details...but if some1 better comes alongi suggestU GO 4 IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!but everything might not go the way u want itand everything has consequensessometimes u like em sometimes u dont!!!!!!!!!as long as u can swallow thatheres to good times!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted August 3 Report Share Posted August 3 Originally posted by bless88 if you're even wondering this, move on. EXACTLY !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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