gio660 Posted August 9 Report Share Posted August 9 So this is a question i would assume most can relate to. Just meeting someone because they are with a close friend, but if it doesn't work out when or should you make some type of move.. sub-question, If your friends ex comes on to you should you respond? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted August 9 Report Share Posted August 9 NEVER!!!god im so against this. dont hook up with ur friends' old flings. theres so many other ppl out there, why start drama between friends? bro's before ho's!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lalate Posted August 9 Report Share Posted August 9 NEVER!!!bro's before ho's!!CARDINAL RULE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!And to the dudes out there that dont follow this rule, . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gio660 Posted August 9 Author Report Share Posted August 9 NEVER!!!bro's before ho's!!Agreed... too bad some of the fellas i know don't always follow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondboheme Posted August 9 Report Share Posted August 9 damn i can't say i haven't been on BOTH sides of this situation before, i hooked up with my ex's friend a few years after i disowned one of my own friends for hooking up with a different ex. sometimes i wish i hadn't gotten so mad at my friend when she did it to me tho, because oddly enough now that i think about it, they had much more in common than he and i did! the main thing to consider tho is that you run the risk of losing a friend. is it worth it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blendprod Posted August 9 Report Share Posted August 9 anytime....i she or he wants to bang it!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted August 9 Report Share Posted August 9 n/m Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondboheme Posted August 9 Report Share Posted August 9 n/mwhere'd it go? that was some good shit!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
raincry Posted August 9 Report Share Posted August 9 it's not worth risking the friendship. besides, they're plenty other fish in the sea. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nekokaburi Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 yeah, but who wants to hook up with a fish? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 yeah, but who wants to hook up with a fish? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 When your friend gives you the ok to pork the shit out of her, go for it, then let the swapping of stories begin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 i would start casually chatting with her for like a month or two, then if i felt something might work out with us, then ask her out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 wow !! im really starting to see peoples values on this board !! GODDAMN !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 30 days is the grace period. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 It depends on some things... How close I am with the friend (I have a lot of friends, but a couple kids I always chill wit). How long they were dating if it was a close friend. If it is worth the drama and bullshit. My girl used to date a kid for like 3 years before I met her. I knew her as "his girl" cause she went to h.s. wit me but we rarely talked cept for hi and bye type friendship. Her ex played soccer with me and he chilled with some of my friends including myself, but we never chilled on the regular nor called one another. Then my Sophmore year in college she started hangin out with my circle of friends. We became good friends and always talked cause we both had nextels as well as talk on AOL. After a while her and her ex were growing apart and she told me she wanted to break up with him, but I never dicked him and said she should. I always told her to make sure it was the right thing to do and he's a good kid blah blah. She then told my best friend what she wanted to hook up wit me and if I would. Originally I said no, but then I couldnt resist cause we were good friends and she was hot. I walked up to her ex and told him that I wanted to hook up wit her, but out of respect I wanted to tell him forst so he didnt think I was doing it behind his back. He flipped out on her and talked mad shit about me (which is understandable). A lot of firends didnt agree and a lot did. For a while it was hard cause we didnt wanna go out a lot due to the fact of kinda making it harder for him to deal or rubbin it in his face. Now my girl and I have been together for 2 years so its been worth all the bullshit I had to go through and headaches. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sotuchick Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 no!!!!!!!!! Don't Do It Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
christyne13 Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 It depends on some things....Agreed...things like what kind of relationship it was...casual? was there sex involved? how long? etc......Now my girl and I have been together for 2 years so its been worth all the bullshit I had to go through and headaches. I dated my cousins ex years after their breakup. They dated casually...no sex..and no big feelings involved (at the time they were both playas...lol) We winded up getting married...11 years later we're still together...guess that we were the better match. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondboheme Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 i would start casually chatting with her for like a month or two, then if i felt something might work out with us, then ask her out. sneak attack???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 Agreed... too bad some of the fellas i know don't always followThen they shouldn't be your friend anymoreEnd of story Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djrx06 Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 Never!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrmatas2277 Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 Then they shouldn't be your friend anymoreEnd of storyEXACTLY.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gio660 Posted August 10 Author Report Share Posted August 10 wow !! im really starting to see peoples values on this board !! GODDAMN !!totaly, i'm impressed.... I will say I did good, she was out last night and came and sat next to me for a while but i was able to just keep it casual conversation and walk away. she is still a friend but i'm definantly keeping the distance.I dig the responses ya'll, thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 Just do what I do and hook up with them while they're still going out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted August 10 Report Share Posted August 10 Just do what I do and hook up with them while they're still going out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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