Guest danni133 Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 Originally posted by suthrnbelle exactly, danni...my BestFriend knows more about me than anyone ever will and has been there for me through too much for it to be less than disaster if something ever happened... I like u already girl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 Originally posted by danni133 I like u already girl aaaaaaawwww shucks thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happykittn Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 Originally posted by dgmodel Best Friend Or GirlFriend/BoyFriend ???(i dont mean dying, but just ending ties...) Best friend. *sigh* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 DEF. DEF. best friend... *what everyone else said* :grin: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 IMO, it's a hard call, I "lost" my best freiend because of my boyfriend at the time... I would love to have both of them, but in the end, I wound up with neither...... Your friends are your friends and that 's the way it should be.... Some people come in and out of your life, but, it's doesn't mean your world should stop... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted May 21 Report Share Posted May 21 Originally posted by dgmodel what if that person was both??? i think thats the worst scenario... haha right now i couldn't agree with you more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fantazy Posted May 21 Report Share Posted May 21 the two cannot be put on the same level, there are things that both gf and a friend posess that cannot be seen in both at the same time. I would have to say that both scenarios are equially hard, but hey if you decide to stop the relationship between friend/gf than there has to be a damn good reason for your actions. loosing PEOPLE sucks ass. "in a past year you lost a lover and a friend, you also gained a few lovers and friends. I gained some lovers but I haven't gained a friend. it's like my career on a scale of 1 to 10 is it a 9 and personal life is at a 2. " - bababooee. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted May 21 Report Share Posted May 21 Originally posted by dgmodel what if that person was both??? i think thats the worst scenario... thats gotta be the worst. thats happened to me a few times. cuz it seems whenever i have a serious gf..they always become my best friend too. and when we break up, they always say they wanna remain best friends. but it never happens. they always fade away. the friendship never lasts. so on top of losing ur gf, and goin thru all that pain, now u lost ur best friend, the closest person to u, in however long that relationship lasted. its such a horrible feeling. cuz its lonely when u lose that special person, and there just seems to be no one else left Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted May 21 Author Report Share Posted May 21 nice sandals... with this Jesus post... coming back from the dead... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted May 21 Report Share Posted May 21 Originally posted by nycchic24 haha right now i couldn't agree with you more. so sorry, love...wish i was in NYC like a best friend should be for you right now...i'll come up if you want...xoxo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted May 22 Report Share Posted May 22 Originally posted by xtcgspot thats gotta be the worst. thats happened to me a few times. cuz it seems whenever i have a serious gf..they always become my best friend too. and when we break up, they always say they wanna remain best friends. but it never happens. they always fade away. the friendship never lasts. so on top of losing ur gf, and goin thru all that pain, now u lost ur best friend, the closest person to u, in however long that relationship lasted. its such a horrible feeling. cuz its lonely when u lose that special person, and there just seems to be no one else left you just summed it up perfectly for me right now i will say that i have been able to maintain some sort of friendsihp with my ex's, but it has always come with time. and its never the same as it once was. (sigh) dgmodel nice sandals... with this Jesus post... coming back from the dead... yeah yeah,... pardon me for digging this one up. i am hving some inner conflict right now. so shoot me jenny, we'll talk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted May 22 Author Report Share Posted May 22 ahh man!!! dont take it the wrong way... i meant it as a joke... cheer up! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted May 22 Report Share Posted May 22 boyfriend...because a friend will always be there for you and help you when you need it forever if they are one of those few people you encounter in life that you can trust completely and totally...men and women come and go... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puck Posted May 23 Report Share Posted May 23 from my persepectivei've lost both, but i never looked back too much. my life was and is still a hard life. i've learned to live with many things that lets say a normal person can't live without (im not saying im not normal). since i moved to us when i was 8 and now im back in romania, i deff have a different persepective towards life and how to manage my life. some tings are indeed hard, but you learn to cope with these things in life and when it gets better you only hope that you'll have a normal situation in life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted May 23 Report Share Posted May 23 i miss my babydoll :worry2: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neptune1 Posted June 14 Report Share Posted June 14 if youre the type of person who has been used by the opposite sex, and therefore tends to use those you are in relationships with, it would probably be unequivically worse to lose a best friend. Thats not my situation at all...In my case I can definately say losing my girl would devastate me. I care for her in so many ways. She is a best friend, a lover and the owner of my heart:love: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted June 14 Report Share Posted June 14 losing a friend is worse..ive experienced that too many times in life. it sux when u grow up with someone and theyre no longer there. theres many more bonds to break with an old friend than there is with a GF or BF...the bonds u created with them are (for the most part) recent and dont compare to the 10 or whatever years of bonds uve created with ur friend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted June 14 Report Share Posted June 14 Originally posted by klohe best friend....gf/bf are easy to come by, but having a friend that understands you and cares for you like a "best" friend does is harder to find.... i agree. i also think that although it might hurt more initially to lose your bf/gf, in the long run youre going to miss your friend more. i guess it depends on the relationship you had with both. me and my ex were best friends and losing him was pretty tough but now im completely over him, whereas if i had lost my best girlfriend im sure i would still miss her all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klohe Posted June 14 Report Share Posted June 14 Originally posted by neptune1 In my case I can definately say losing my girl would devastate me. I care for her in so many ways. She is a best friend, a lover and the owner of my heart:love: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 14 Author Report Share Posted June 14 losing my religion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted June 15 Report Share Posted June 15 I thonk it would have to be my best friend.......I am going through that right now and I am heartbroken over it.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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