Andy, You're absolutely right. I know that. But it's easier said than done (at least for me). It's one thing when your bf/gf stops loving you one day. Of course it hurts very bad. Actually, I just recently got SO fucked over that I think my mind went into that mode where nothing gets to me anymore. But that was 1 guy. Whatever. It's different with close friends though. It hurts much more because you KNOW that bf/gf's come and go, but friends (I mean closest ones) are supposedly forever. Not true. And about being alone, you ARE alone in this world. Everyone who's close to you at the moment can stop being so close at any given moment - be that bf/gf, best friends, family, or anyone else.. Sad, depressing, but true .. Oh man this is a sore subject Sorry guys, didn't mean to get so deep on you..