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my best friend is a gay man, and we go out clubbing together as a pair more than i go out with anyone else. people say he "doesn't look gay," and a lot of people say we look like a couple. we're both single, though, which presents a problem, i think. "we're never gonna get any ass this way," i laughed, once, and he said, "that's not what i'm after." it's true, i'm not after ass either, but i would like to meet guys - boyfriend-ish types. the last bf i had i met at a club, but i was with a group of friends that night; i wasn't standing next to my best friend, the way we two do now. so, my question is this: guys and girls, do you not approach people if they're with just one person who happens to be of the opposite sex, or do you further examine the two people to try and figure out their relationship? i, of course, don't think my friend and i look like a couple, 'cause we don't hang all over each other and we do a lot of people-watching. most people in couples at clubs maintain some physical contact most of the time and devote most of their eye contact to each other. perhaps it would be weird to approach someone in a party of 2 to try to hit on 1 of them, but, if the other went to the bar or the bathroom, i figure that'd be considered an ok time to talk. i dunno... thoughts?

i'm never bored; there's so much to do. lonely, though - that i am, much of the time . o - and it's 1:21.

hey, if you're gonna go after that, you could also mention that s/he wrote "alot" (should be two words), "doing somethings that's been" (subject/verb agreement), "like the way you like touch me" (please...), and just forget about punctuation.but really, poor writing isn't an indication of anyone's age anymore. adults can be just as bad as kids.

aww, blue, i'm sorry to hear that . i had a fabass saturday night/sunday & night with my favorite friend , but i woke up with the worst headache today. i called in sick today, which i don't think i ever have at this job, and i've been there about 2 years. so, i wasn't bored at work, but i felt pretty crappy .

when your host starts falling asleep , it's time to go home !!! tune in tomorrow.

so jealous...

the west coast avenger returns to grab the last word !!!!!!!!!!!

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talk about mixed messages! that's one confused girl or boy!!!

i voted without thinking ; knock one "no" off your list and add one "we just messed around."

correctly estimating one's own hunger makes for a more pleasant dining experience; be honest (and careful!) with your digestive system and life can improve greatly . tune in tomorrow.

a practical one for today, kids: buy your 2004 organizer calendars now! yeah, this one's not the deepest... last year, my organizer's refill was sold out all over this city and i had to buy a totally oddball one that didn't match... it was traumatic ... tune in tomorrow.

you two suck. party poopers .

shit eater .

kobe bryant does that; i didn't know ll did that, too. get these men some lip balm !!!

ok - if i hear that milkshake song one more time, i think i will lose it completely ... any other songs that you guys think should be laid to rest (or burned at the stake)???

el cholo - ... yummeroo...

well, i'm there, y'all !!!

when looking for support, one ought to seriously consider one's choice of friends and family. tune in tomorrow.

i mostly do, too . i need the dance.

madonna needs to go away .

mala rocks; i'm glad i got to meet her when i was in new york in december. i was lucky . hopefully we'll have a reunion at a wmc coming up - as soon as i can afford one !!! talk to you when you get settled, girl - miss ya in the meantime! say hey to the gators for me!

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yeah, that's silly. masturbation is simply someone touching him/herself. it doesn't matter who else is in the room.