I totally agree with everything marcid21 said. It definitely sounds like she was just trying to be upfront rather than see if you'd be interested in being a father... and I think its really good that she was upfront cause now you know what her situation is and you can decide if you want to get into it. Id say if you have any reservations about jumping into a relationship with a women who has a child, then its probably better that you dont. But then again, you'll never know for sure until you have that experience...