Dead on. People don't realize that most Manhattanites (mobys and darias) aren't true NYers, they're struggling actors, queers, college students, etc. I don't think it's right to compare NJ clubs to places in the city. Manhattan spots get so hot and cold, and the crowds are constantly changing. A better representation of a NY party would be Legacy, in Brooklyn. You still get a lot of wanna-bes and the rest of the assholes, but it's been going on forever and I always had a good time. I've seen some of the worst fights of my life in that place, but it def had the mintest girls. Better girls than any Jersey spot I've been to.