I would've kicked him to the curb just for him calling me "trashy" instead of "classy"... But have you noticed how much J. Hoe's changed from each boyfriend? When she was with Puff Daddy, she was going for the "greasy-ghetto-I-need-attention" look. Cris Judd she wasn't as greasy but she still needed the attention. And now with Ben Affleck, she's like a lil white girl. Not trying to say anything bad but... I dunno... She looks like she conforms from boyfriend to boyfriend. IMO I think she should get an identity while she's single instead of being "P. Diddy's hoe" or "Ben Affleck's fiance."