For all you people who are defending quoth on his 'personal' problem, just realize that Mike chose to air his dirty laundry out in a PUBLIC FORUM. MIKE CROSSED THE LINE IN TAKING THIS PERSONAL TRAUMA AND TURNING IT INTO A SYMPATHY FORUM FOR HIMSELF. It doesn't take a genius to anticipate the Negative and positive remarks that would be offered to him. Mike, next time, keep your problems PRIVATE and discuss them with REAL friends, not a message board. I'm sure your mom would not appreciate this. And for the rest of cp....GET A LIFE, ESPECIALLY PEOPLE WHO 'THREATEN' OTHER PEOPLE OVER THE INTERNET. -iliana