damelo Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 What does everyone think about going clubbing/going out when you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Is it not the same? Not worth it? An exercise in frustration? Do you still go out with your single friends, or keep it "just the two of us"???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 Originally posted by damelo What does everyone think about going clubbing/going out when you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Is it not the same? Not worth it? An exercise in frustration? Do you still go out with your single friends, or keep it "just the two of us"???? Well Will Smith...when I was with my girl we use to go out "just the two of us", alone with our single friends and all together.Obviously it is not the same as when you are single but if you need me to further explain please feel free to ask.Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tommyarmani Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 you need to find a girl that is bi. this way when you go out to clubs, you can enjoy checking out other hot girls together, as a couple!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thrillfire Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 It would be too much trouble for me to go out by myself with my friends, cause of the interigation that would follow my return. But he went out a couple of times with his friends. Its fine with me as long as its not all the time. Mostly we just prefer to go out clubbing together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
c-luv Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 i do both....sometimes just us and another couple...sometimes him and all our friends...sometimes just me and the girls.....it all depends...we have the same group of friends so we usually go out as a group...however, sometimes its good just to be with the girls or him with the guys... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mizlissa Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 Originally posted by nomembername Well Will Smith... If you go out as a couple though and take a single friend with you, don't forget about your single friend.I used to go out with my two best friends alot in college in Cali and they'd always get drunk and bump and grind and get all make-outy and forget about me.THEY always had a great time though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stompy Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 i never had a problem going clubbing with the gf i had, and i do not understand why it wouldn't be the same with here thereunless you don't like her all that much or you're trying to get ass from someone elsei might be totally off here, but aren't you supposed to want to do things with your gf?if you feel like you can't go out and be yourlsef with her there, end it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 me and my ex would go out just us 2, we'd go out with a group of friends, or i'd go out with my friends, and he'd go out with his... never had a problem with it... we didn't always share the same taste in music, so sometimes we'd go to the parties we wanted to go to, and meet up afterwards... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cuban2def Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 go out party!!! never hold back thats when you start to doubt things!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scruffe Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 You gotta do both. Give the relationship attention... go out alone.... then go out with friends... but mostly do both.. have your girl/guy there with your friends... you need a good mix. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris817 Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 Originally posted by tommyarmani you need to find a girl that is bi. this way when you go out to clubs, you can enjoy checking out other hot girls together, as a couple!! From your lips to God's ears Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 Originally posted by damelo What does everyone think about going clubbing/going out when you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Is it not the same? Not worth it? An exercise in frustration? Do you still go out with your single friends, or keep it "just the two of us"???? i do go without him from time to time but it's def not the same. i enjoy clubbing with him alot. & when the shoe is on the other foot and he wants to go out by himself i get all freaked out and shit. i guess i'm still insecure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damelo Posted December 18 Author Report Share Posted December 18 Originally posted by tranzwhore i do go without him from time to time but it's def not the same. i enjoy clubbing with him alot. & when the shoe is on the other foot and he wants to go out by himself i get all freaked out and shit. i guess i'm still insecure. Why is it not the same for you? What do you do differently? Interesting to hear a girl's perspective... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 Originally posted by damelo Why is it not the same for you? What do you do differently? Interesting to hear a girl's perspective... what i mean is i miss him when i'm out there alone.but i am jealous when he goes out without me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teknojunkee Posted December 19 Report Share Posted December 19 Me and my girl go out alone...I was never the type to go out to hook-up, so i dont do it now either.I go out to hang out with the boys, drink, listen to some music, then come home and sleep.When we go out together I think i have more fun. She LOVES to party, dance, and really have a good time.Tek Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxichikk Posted December 19 Report Share Posted December 19 that was one of the reasons my relationship hit rock bottom, we never really went out together to clubs, and i would have loved it.He would just always go with the "guys" but other girls ended up going, just not me.I think that you should be able to still go out with your friends and do what you have to do and be able to go out with your girl/boy friend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
disk-ofreak Posted December 19 Report Share Posted December 19 ^^ whoa wtf, u couldn't go to a club with him and his friends but other girls went:confused: FUCK THAT!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
disk-ofreak Posted December 19 Report Share Posted December 19 if your girl friend likes the same music and clubs u do, then whats the problem???if u go to clubs ONLY to hook up, then i guess u shouldn't be going at all if u already have a girl friend, right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aknelma Posted December 19 Report Share Posted December 19 Originally posted by scruffe You gotta do both. Give the relationship attention... go out alone.... then go out with friends... but mostly do both.. have your girl/guy there with your friends... you need a good mix. ITS DEFFENATELY ABOUT A HEALTHY MIX GOT TO DO BOTH.....BALANCE THINGS OUT..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxichikk Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 yaaa well tell me about it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 Originally posted by sexxichikk yaaa well tell me about it! but based on your sig pic, don't you want a bad boy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 Originally posted by disk-ofreak if your girl friend likes the same music and clubs u do, then whats the problem???if u go to clubs ONLY to hook up, then i guess u shouldn't be going at all if u already have a girl friend, right? this is true!!!! just being out alone on a regular basis bring lots of temptation. it's unavoidable for men not to end up cheating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxichikk Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 i doooo, but not like that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted December 20 Report Share Posted December 20 i wouldnt go out with someone i couldnt go clubbing with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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