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yeah, that sucks . that was one terrific thing about nyc - that my neighbors never heard a thing and couldn't complain about anything i did, no matter what hour. this was true growing up at both my mom's place in soho and my dad's on the upper west side. it's all about old buildings with thick walls, ceilings, and floors.

nope; red is 21 and over.

you never have to answer questions you don't want to. tune in tomorrow.

page 100!!!!!! woohoo !!!!!!! an' what? an' what? you thought i was gonna let you have the last word ???

rock on .

i'm with likmylipz all the way here .i'm not down with giving oral (pun intended), but it's 'cause of a few bad experiences. it's not just that i don't like doing it, which is true, but it brings up a lot of emotional stuff that i still can't deal with yet. i'm sure i will be able to, though, when i'm with someone i really care about and when i'm really ready. but, in turn, i have never asked anyone to do anything in bed that he didn't feel comfortable doing. if a guy goes down on a girl just because he wants to get head, his motives are wrong, and it'll be obvious. sex is an incredibly intimate thing, and both parties should feel good while giving and receiving everything they do.

to making out, to dry humping.

i was out at my fave club on saturday and there were small-breasted women wearing all these cool tops... but there was one girl who really made me jealous: she was going braless, must've been an a-cup, and she was wearing a cotton eyelet tank. it was really pretty, summery, and looked so comfy and airy. i'm a 36d and i wish i could go without wearing a bra . i can't wear so many interesting/assymetrical/backless things. i know what they say, you always want what you don't have... i generally like my boobs as big as they are, but i don't like the restrictions of what i can wear. but i remember, back when i was a 34b, i tried on a victoria's secret push-up & padded bra and it hurt like hell. my boobs hurt most of the time anyway, but that bra was torture. i don't know why anyone would put herself through that (nevermind the "false advertising" and such).

they creep me out, too. there was a guy who used to come to my work who had purple ones with a white x in the center but always had this "why are you staring at me?" look on his face. sheesh. and i don't like to see asian or black girls with blue contacts; besides just looking wrong, it looks like denial and self-hatred, to me.

no. never.

i just saw the re-broadcast of the pilot . too bad it's normally on on tuesdays, opposite "queer eye for the straight guy" . (that show is sooo ...)

keeping your mind open when going out for the evening is always a good idea. allowing for spontanaeity allows for unexpected and unpredictable fun; why hold yourself to a plan when something better could potentially come along ? tune in tomorrow.

funny you should mention them - i was on www.ecstasy.org recently (a site that tests more pills than dancesafe.com), and i came across some testing on blue dolphins. lots of them weren't e, and i was shocked, 'cause i had some experience with them last summer, and they kicked ASS. but it turned out that there were blue dolphins all over the country, so the non-pure ones must've been copycats. the ones i had were amazing. hey, let's go to lostin310's for a party !

that's insane! i've never heard of that. but my experience, anotherway83, has been that id checks are very thorough everywhere. i really don't know of any particularly lenient clubs. i've been to spundae and red a trillion times and the door guy stares at my id and my face back and forth for a good 30 seconds. ok, they're big venues, and i know he sees a lot of people and ids, but my picture looks EXACTLY like me, i always go with the same friend, and the two of us pretty much dress in our same certain ways whenever we go out (my pants are HUGE, my friend is pretty big and he always wears a shirt from anchor blue and a hat ). i'd think by now he'd know us.

wtf ?

you sasspots!

beware of disco naps! they can easily tempt one to forget a night of clubbing altogether and just spend the evening in bed. tune in tomorrow.

the word is mine .

know your rights. there are many government agencies out there to help in different problem situations (discrimination, poor housing conditions, denial of certain rights). we may have become jaded and cynical about the will and ability of these agencies to come through for us as citizens, but they are there for a reason and can actually do their jobs quite effectively, when given the chance. tune in tomorrow.

how can there be two recoveries?

bump, yo!

you saw the ad or the show?i saw that episode, of course; it was the series premiere.

i don't know what you kids are talking about; i saw a promo for queer eye on nbc tonight, but it said, "only on bravo." i seriously doubt that nbc would carry it in the east and not in the west; i think it's just an ad.

very cute, glowgirl, and i remember your other dog pics; you take great pictures of them . but i advocate getting pooches from the pound if anyone here is thinking of getting one. it's so sad to think of their dreary lives in cramped cages and the deaths they can't escape if not adopted. and, as bob barker says, spay and neuter 'em, kids!

why aren't there any gay people on cp? almost all of my clubbing friends are gay men. it doesn't follow.