ahhhhh good descriptions here... i'd add that a difference between a blowjob is that a pussy presses in on you all around, even if your not moving, and seems to pull ya in. and there's pressure against the head on the way in each time. and a girl with skills (u know, doing u'r exercises and all) can massage u and if she knows how ta move....well, then u'r combining the feeling of the best handjob / blowjob with everything else these guys are talking about....and the look she gets in her eye when she knows she's got ya right on the edge and she's in control...gotta love that! and for me there's a big thrill with being all pressed up along side and wrapped around someone too, with the smell of them and their warmth surrounding ya....ok, i gotta stop! and yeah, there's such a huge difference between raw and not that it not even worth going into....