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color me ignorant, but what does "BC" stand for? and i love this countdown. i keep running into it, but i somehow keep running into the same segments (around 95-75). i wish they'd play the rest when i'm around. i'll go to the vh-1 site after this, but i wonder where "i'm too sexy" fell and if "word up" by cameo is on there.

even if you can't afford to travel, it's good to get viewpoints from other parts of the world; even if you watch our version of the news, isolating leaves one disconnected and even uneducated in the end. tune in tomorrow.

- just takin' another glance at this thread.

i've wondered about this, as i've had very little experience - basically nothing i care to count (long story) before the first guy i had regular sex with, but we didn't have much before we broke up our short-lived relationship. i couldn't get him to answer this question 'cause he got shy about talking about sex unless we were in the middle of it . (the only thing he ever did say was that i "make him come in seconds," but i don't know if that had anything to do with this.) anyway, i figure that, because i've hardly done anything, i'm pretty tight. and, also, because having sex hurts, for chrissake. it's kind of in a good way, but i hope that gets better. so, here are my questions: 1. is the difference between girls who've had a lot of sex and girls who haven't really distinguishable, as far as tightness goes? 2. is that a big factor on how fast you come? 3. is that a big factor on how good the sex is? * (and i know about kegel excercises, if someone's already thinking of bringing them up.)

i don't think he's necessarily "blown it"; it's always nice to have people to see once a week. maybe he's someone that she looks forward to seeing and she'd always be open to an invitation out.

waiting doesn't make one a prude. for me, sex isn't just physical; i have to connect with someone on five levels before sex can be enjoyable for me: 1. heart 2. mind 3. body (of course ) 4. soul 5. and spirit i'm a rare breed, though. this takes time for me (depending on how much the guy and i turn out to be compatible, you see? if we don't connect on those levels, then we aren't meant to be and the sex would never have been good anyway.) , and if a guy can't wait for me to respect him before i have sex with him, than he's got a skewed sense of priorities himself.

most things are worth a second look. tune in tomorrow.

that's jacked up, but it's funny anyway. no, man, that's really jacked up. but it's funny.

the idea of peeing in the shower had never even ocurred to me until a male friend of mine told me about it when i was in high school.

where did you go to school?

i want the same from a guy. the guys i run across all seem to want to get into my pants before they even know my last name - even non-one-night-stand types. i need to get to know a person before i'm even interested enough to go into his (or let him into my) body.

i went to the gynecologist .

that's easy - lying. i see it easily and it ain't attractive.

that won't be the case forever, either; an opportunity will happen to match up with your qualifications and desires eventually - you just have to recognize it and grab it before it goes away. in the meantime, you can find a job that you don't like of which you should not feel ashamed .

always check to see if there is toilet paper in the bathroom before you sit down to start your bizness . tune in tomorrow.

i wouldn't do any plastic surgery, but i had two moles removed when i was around twelve years old 'cause i was embarassed about them. still, though, that's a bit different 'cause moles can turn into malignant melanomas, and removing them just kept me from having to watch them my whole life. little did i know, however, that there would be scars left in their place.

i just started eating oatmeal again. not the watered down microwave kind, though - those oats are too thin or something - the stuff in the cylinder that you can actually cook up so it's thick and dough-y. iloveitiloveitiloveit!!! although, maybe it's just 'cause i use it as a vehicle for maple syrup (loads o' real maple syrup - yum). * o, and ellywelly, i love your sig!!!

somebody give me a better one, so that i can pay my bills! i have a b.f.a. in photography, and i'm working in a goddamn photo lab. this sucks.

i don't like being single; i can't stand the loneliness, especially now that it's spring. i hate being suspicious of everyone who seems interested in me, due to all of my past bfs being untrustworthy, insincere, or heartbreakers in the end. everything that i miss about my old relationships are just things that i'm misremembering, i know, but it doesn't keep me from missing them anyway.

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don't be ashamed of where you are, career-wise; you won't be there forever. tune in tomorrow.

hey, girl! good to have you back! check your pms.

make mistakes, but also make a textbook of them (figuratively speaking), remember to study often, and practice what you've learned; sometimes, though, putting your experiences down on paper helps best. tune in tomorrow.

i ran out of my favorite eye makeup remover - the body shop's chamomile liquid that removes waterproof - but, when i went to get a new bottle, they only had it in an obscene size that i would never be able to use in a lifetime, and my extremely broke (you have no idea) ass was not about to spend that much on fucking eye makeup remover, especially when it was such a ridiculous vat of stuff. i mean, hey, i'm almost not buying it in protest of them not selling it in a more reasonable size. anycrap... i was poking around my bathroom, and read on the back of a bottle of baby oil that it could be used as eye makeup remover. "hmmm," i thought, "but could it take off the waterproof whatnot?" and it does, it's fabulous. it's gentle and moisturizing and all that good stuff. rock it, party people.